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Mother in law mad I fed dog from "human" dish. Who's right here?
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:37 AM Author: Vigorous sweet tailpipe We're staying with my in laws for Thanksgiving. Just got in last night. This is the first year we brought our dog with us. My wife's family doesn't love dogs. They say they're messy. This morning, I got up with the kids and when I went to feed the dog, I saw we'd forgotten her bowl. No problem, I grabbed a big tupperware bowl from the cabinet, fed her in that, and went on with my morning. Mother in law came down later, asked why the bowl was on the floor, and flipped out when my son told her. I said "what's the big deal--you marinate raw chicken and pork in the tupperware then wash it out and use it again. It's fine." She said it's different. She threw the tupperware in the trash and left.
Who's right here? Wife isn't picking sides. She just says I shouldn't have done that, but she doesn't have a better solution. It's going to be an awkward next 4 days. |
Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:38 AM Author: Hairless step-uncle's house JM have some coffee first. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534594) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:09 AM Author: Translucent Forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534736) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:58 PM Author: Angry station yarmulke (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45538061) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:39 AM Author: Violet Anal Water Buffalo Bro you literally undermined the status of humans everywhere by treating a dog as an equal, not cool. Everybody in that house that day was lowered to the level of an animal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534599) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:40 AM Author: Curious Abnormal Orchestra Pit Idea He Suggested You should've asked her first. I let me dog lick off my plates b/c I know she'll lick it clean and I'll just throw it into the dish washer right after. Not everyone's as comfortable with dog drool as me tho. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534603) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:42 AM Author: Vigorous sweet tailpipe No one was up but me, kids, and dog. There was no one to ask.
It's not about being "comfortable" with dog drool. They put raw meat and stuff in the tupperware. That's not worse/dirtier than dog drool. Either way, you wash it before you use it again. |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:51 AM Author: Curious Abnormal Orchestra Pit Idea He Suggested It's not your tupperware. Your logic doesn't apply. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534642) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:52 AM Author: Vigorous sweet tailpipe What's a better solution? It's easy to be a critic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534647) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:02 AM Author: Curious Abnormal Orchestra Pit Idea He Suggested Apologize to your MIL and tell her you should've checked in w/ her first. Tell her the dog needs a bowl tho and that you'll use the one that she threw away. When you get home order some tupperware replacements and mail it to your MIL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534693) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:14 AM Author: Vigorous sweet tailpipe I already told her sorry and that I didn't realize that she would have a problem with it, which she shouldn't. No need to order her "replacement" tupperware. She made the choice to throw that one away. That's on her. I would have washed it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534767) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 4:49 PM Author: Bright old irish cottage reading party End of thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536506) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:40 AM Author: plum principal's office haunted graveyard Which third-world country is she from? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534604) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 1:30 PM Author: Dead Irate Blood Rage National (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535527) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:47 AM Author: Amber Lascivious Organic Girlfriend Liquid Oxygen ljl @ all the doggo slobs rushing in to say it's all good (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534627) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:50 AM Author: Hairless step-uncle's house Tbf there was only one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534638) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 4:29 PM Author: Odious heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536433) |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 9:48 AM Author: greedy pozpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539078) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:06 AM Author: fragrant rebellious field conversely, what is the etiquette here if my spouse is into petplay and wants to eat thanksgiving dinner from a dog bowl? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534712) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:08 AM Author: self-absorbed trust fund Women are stupid cunts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534723) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:10 AM Author: awkward blue electric furnace international law enforcement agency OP is ritually impure and should be cast out of the home to live with the dogs for a week as penance (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534738) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:16 AM Author: Translucent Forum I'm not a dog person and I too would not like this. I would not even have allowed the dog inside my house.
Interesting hypo, JM. Typically someone raised in a non-dog-family would not get with a dog person. I tried dating girls with dogs and it never worked. I was always too annoyed by something or other the dog did. Or she was way too into bringing the dog everywhere etc. And the smell in the house was always there. |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:20 AM Author: Vigorous sweet tailpipe Why would you have a problem with the dog eating out of an old tupperware bowl? Explain the logic. It's OK to let raw chicken soak in there, then wash it and use it for leftovers the next day...but it's not OK for a dog (whose mouth is way cleaner than a human's mouth) to eat out of it? It's not like I put it back without washing it. It would have gone through the dishwasher before anyone used it again.
Wife is much more "American" than her parents. She always wanted a dog growing up but they wouldn't get her one. She's totally a dog person anyway. |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:38 AM Author: Histrionic red indian lodge gaping There’s no logic but your MIL’s disgust mechanism has been activate so that’s the end of the story. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534910) |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 10:10 AM Author: thriller massive stead yes and this cannot be un-done (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539153) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 12:14 PM Author: Translucent Forum Congrats on the Asian American wife. There is no logic to these things. Dog people are as illogical as non-dog people. Both have visceral reactions to the other side. It is her house so respect her wishes. When she visits you and your dog is slobbering all over her and she doesn't like it, ask her to gtfo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535103) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 1:26 PM Author: Sticky boiling water people who are hurt I can tell simply from the thread title that your MIL is asian, probably Chinese. Chinese people in general don't trust dishwashers to get dog-cooties off a plate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535511) |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 9:49 AM Author: slap-happy site And also, like your wife, they would prefer to feed ON the dog on a human plate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539080) |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 10:10 AM Author: thriller massive stead ran here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539156) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 1:27 PM Author: Magical Area Brethren She sounds like a cunt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535515) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 1:29 PM Author: Dead Irate Blood Rage National Take your cock out and smear the smegma on her face (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535526) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:03 PM Author: Citrine concupiscible factory reset button Make your wife drink out of a dog bowl during doggy style sex. Keyfob and send to MIL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536855) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:28 PM Author: Disgusting jet national security agency whorehouse Gross and rude, brother. Be more considerate with things that aren't yours. And---don't bring your dog to someone's home when you know they don't like dogs. That's next level rude and inconsiderate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536947) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:36 PM Author: Vigorous sweet tailpipe Wife cleared bringing the dog in advance. My kids and their cousins are all into having her there. It's a big house with a yard.
And again, lots of people--poa, MIL, wife-- are critical. But no one can tell me why this matters. At all. These tupperwares get filled with salmonella covered raw meat, washed, and re-used. And no one has a better solution. It was early. No one was up except me, kids, and dog. This was the best option. |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:39 PM Author: Disgusting jet national security agency whorehouse Here's the thing--most moms are going to say "sure, bring the dog." But if you know your mom doesn't like dogs, the polite thing to do is to refrain from asking in the first place. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536989) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:50 PM Author: Histrionic red indian lodge gaping You should have asked, it’s illogical but she’s a woman. Are you autistic? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45537034) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 9:14 PM Author: Razzle incel school cafeteria You're right - it doesn't matter - but how would you feel if I used one of your Tupperware containers (a very small one) to collect my semen? Why would it matter at all if I masturbated into your Tupperware container and filled it with my jizz? It's nowhere near as unsanitary as raw meat or spoiled food, so who cares, right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45537571) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 9:46 PM Author: Bright old irish cottage reading party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45537740) |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 9:50 AM Author: greedy pozpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539085) |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 1:15 PM Author: Translucent Forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539807) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:57 PM Author: Primrose Lettuce Coffee Pot your MIL is a dumb bird-brain cunt
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Date: November 24th, 2022 10:03 AM Author: Irradiated kink-friendly house elastic band Yuge dog person here and grew up surrounded by dogs, livestock, etc. Will happily throw my dogs generous cuts of slightly-expired meat, human food, etc.
Clearly your MIL is asian. That said, I have also done a 180 in recent years and don't let anyone - guests or family - use human bowls in our house for feeding animals EVER anymore.
It's not that it's 'unclean' its just weird and degrading. Wipe that shit off your human plate and throw it in a dog bowl or out in the yard first. Don't hand over YOUR plate to an inferior creature. |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 4:48 PM Author: Angry station yarmulke "It's not that it's 'unclean' its just weird and degrading."
What is this mental illness? |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 6:40 PM Author: Irradiated kink-friendly house elastic band ('dog mom' AKA dog fucker) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45540709) |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 10:07 AM Author: thriller massive stead edit/ ok, Tupperware is difficult to autoclave and make disinfected, so I get where MIL coming from. Bad, JM, BAD Also, buy her a new Tupperware and call it a day |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 1:10 PM Author: Histrionic red indian lodge gaping Basically the entire family sucks.
He sucks for not asking permission and not being prepared to feed his dog with his own possessions.
She sucks for making a big deal about it. |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 4:56 PM Author: Disgusting jet national security agency whorehouse Autoclave? Tell me more about your NERD background sir. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45540492) |
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Date: November 24th, 2022 6:45 PM Author: Laughsome private investor den Holy shit this is why I spend thanksgiving with friends …. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45540715) |