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Date: March 16th, 2023 5:43 PM Author: odious ape dog poop She's a nurse and a doula (someone who helps women deliver babies). We matched on Hinge. A few weeks ago, on the day of our first date, she texted me and said she has to cancel because a client's baby delivery was earlier than expected. Ok fine. So we rescheduled for today. Then ,this morning, she texted me and said she was terribly sorry to cancel again because a patient of hers with whom she was close with, passed away. She's processing a lot and doesn't feel as though she can show up to the date as her best self.
Shit happens in life but the odds of both of these things happening on the days of the scheduled dates seems pretty low. Am I being too cynical? |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 5:47 PM Author: garnet son of senegal nursing home she 100% lied both times (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46060968) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 5:55 PM Author: mind-boggling space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46060993) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 6:04 PM Author: Underhanded balding toaster stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46061036) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:33 AM Author: Honey-headed Pea-brained Parlour Athletic Conference (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063216) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:42 AM Author: Big tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063377) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:36 PM Author: fluffy obsidian lay CR. She met another guy and is keeping him on the back burner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46066733) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:48 PM Author: Seedy trust fund house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46066774) |
Date: March 16th, 2023 5:47 PM Author: cerise crackhouse international law enforcement agency Been here done that a lot
1. I'm usually of the opinion that if someone bails twice, its almost certainly a lost cause. There are exceptions, but if nothing else to go by its not looking good 2. Did she suggest any future dates on her second cancelation? |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 5:52 PM Author: Laughsome Gay Wizard Hell lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46060977) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 5:49 PM Author: Dull alcoholic native shes lying (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46060973) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 5:53 PM Author: Laughsome Gay Wizard Hell we're not talking about doodikoff here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46060978) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 5:54 PM Author: Dull alcoholic native the "appeal to emotion" with the patient dying is complete bs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46060987) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 6:02 PM Author: odious ape dog poop She works as a nurse and doula so shit like this is not uncommon in her job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46061027) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 6:05 PM Author: Dull alcoholic native right. im not saying be a dick about it. just saying shes lying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46061040) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 6:31 PM Author: odious ape dog poop Why do you think she's lying? Pretty elaborate and dramatic for a lie, as opposed to just canceling because she's not feeling well or because she's too busy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46061174) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 6:32 PM Author: Dull alcoholic native it mightve actually happened. in fact it probably did. thats what inspired the lie. but at the end of the day she simply doesnt want to go. she prefers you fawning over her through her phone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46061183) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 6:41 PM Author: irate sapphire coldplay fan new version (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46061232) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:19 AM Author: Beady-eyed Useless Brakes Juggernaut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063210) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:32 AM Author: mind-boggling space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063360) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:34 PM Author: Geriatric clear rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065966) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:51 PM Author: Seedy trust fund house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46066783) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:26 AM Author: Cerebral brindle public bath Why not just respond: “Wow sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences. Happy to give you the space you need and if you eventually want to reschedule reach out. Until then, I hope you feel better soon.”
Than the ball’s in her court. You go about your life and if she’s really interested she can make a move instead of your wringing your hands about it. |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:30 AM Author: lavender rebellious market hissy fit this is right and he will never hear from her again |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:33 AM Author: Beady-eyed Useless Brakes Juggernaut If these things really did happen, makes total sense for her to cancel. Doubtful that she made it up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063217) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:35 AM Author: mind-boggling space Cmon man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063367) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:39 AM Author: self-absorbed garrison This is cucky as fuck you don’t put the ball in a woman’s court. You’re the man take charge. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063224) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:54 AM Author: Big tank she flaked twice though. if her excuse was just a ruse, then they likely just won't talk again. if it was a bona fide excuse, she'll feel apologetic and be eager to reschedule.
IMO, it'd be more cucky for OP to be like "PLEASE LET ME TAKE YOU OUT TO DINNER ASAP!" after getting flaked on twice. |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:34 PM Author: Geriatric clear rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065967) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:49 PM Author: Cerebral brindle public bath As opposed to what? Following up repeatedly? LOL.
If your point is he should just ghost her I’m totally with you there. But I’m getting the vibe from OP that he’s unusually wrapped up in this and so I assume he intends to respond back with something. Of the non-ghosting options I think it’s better to make her reach out (or otherwise you move on) than continue to try to set something up like a cuck. |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:33 AM Author: mind-boggling space Way too simpy imo. He should just respond something like sorry to hear that. None of the other crap after. Then just ignore and move on (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063362) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:42 AM Author: Big tank cr. no need to be nasty or ignore. just send a nice message and have no expectations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063374) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:34 PM Author: Geriatric clear rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065969) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:38 AM Author: self-absorbed garrison The clear answer here is to at least pretend to buy her excuse, not mind then suggest other plans and jam the throttle through the stops and push hard for nudes. If she sends you naked pictures she will prob come to the new date you set and fuck you, if no pics forget her. Soo CR 👍🏻. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063223) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 3:55 PM Author: razzle-dazzle scarlet factory reset button dragon titcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065460) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:34 AM Author: mind-boggling space Most women don’t like online dating and just use it for validation, they don’t actually want to meet someone that way. You should just start talking to women IRL. Try to meet someone at church or something. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063365) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:01 PM Author: Beady-eyed Useless Brakes Juggernaut Dating apps are easily the most common way for couples to meet. So you're clearly wrong on that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065782) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:15 PM Author: mind-boggling space Source? But regardless that’s not persuasive for a number of reasons. First, this depends on geographic area. Second, I highly doubt that’s true for all couples across all generations, and even for younger generations I suspect it is questionable. And are you referring to couples who are together for a long period of time, married, etc? Third, I don’t believe the majority of current marriages meet on apps. Fourth, even if it is common, it doesn’t change the fact that women don’t really like it instinctively and would prefer to meet in person. And l you want to do what these normal NPCs do anyway. Pretty much all desirable men know that they have to date down on apps most of the time, though this depends on region. |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:38 AM Author: Lime alcoholic private investor i dated a midwife for a year and this shit happened frequently, so i buy the excuse.
you can tell if an excuse is real by how enthusiastic they are to set up another date. if she is apologetic and suggesting new ideas, the excuse is real. if she's just like "sorry, i have to cancel." and doesn't say anything after, she is just trying to let you down easy. |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:43 AM Author: Big tank especially the 2nd time. this bitch doesn't owe OP anything, so if she doesn't want to meet, it'd be very easy to just ghost his punk ass. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063379) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:50 AM Author: frisky gunner So she either lied or made no indication that she'd like to see you. Which of these options make you interested? Op/Doodikoff, just FedEx her a croissant and save your time |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:54 AM Author: Big tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063392) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 4:02 PM Author: cerise crackhouse international law enforcement agency you busted me motherfucker! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065494) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:10 PM Author: frisky gunner you need serious help (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065822) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 4:47 PM Author: gay school cafeteria If she cancels because she has to wash her hair you know it's not meant to be. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065692) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:12 PM Author: Transparent State If she cancels and doesn’t try to reschedule immediately she found something incrementally better. That’s how it works. Apps exist solely to add jet fuel to female looks/height-based hypergamy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065834) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:13 PM Author: Hairraiser Lodge Roommate Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065837) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:32 PM Author: gay school cafeteria OTOH, if you hurl on her shoes and she doesn't bolt, then you know it was meant to be. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46066715) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 8:45 PM Author: Razzmatazz fishy menage gaming laptop Doulas/midwifes are all crackpots, cut from the same cloth as chiros
I wouldn't have even bothered making a date in the first place |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 9:28 PM Author: odious ape dog poop OP here. This is what she wrote in her text.
"Hey XXX, I am so sorry to do this for a second time but one of my patients with whom I'm very close is passing away. I am processing a lot and don't feel as thought I can show up as my best self for a date tonight."
My response: "Sorry to hear that! Let me know if you want to to reschedule and for what date. Thanks."
No response from her. This was sent yesterday at around noon. |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 9:32 PM Author: abusive tanning salon LOL
"thank" |
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Date: March 18th, 2023 7:00 PM Author: mind-boggling space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46069493) |
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Date: March 18th, 2023 7:14 PM Author: Lime alcoholic private investor hey there! just have an patients dying tonight haha? if not we should grab that drink haha. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46069530) |
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Date: March 18th, 2023 7:17 PM Author: Aqua turdskin .....lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46069536) |
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Date: March 19th, 2023 7:45 PM Author: cerise crackhouse international law enforcement agency Yeah move on (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46072973) |
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Date: March 19th, 2023 8:16 PM Author: Crimson Irradiated Pocket Flask Lmao @ the general proposition of using an exclamation point as a man and even moreso in response to learning about a dying patient. Jfc, you're done here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46073030) |
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Date: March 20th, 2023 6:26 AM Author: Geriatric clear rehab Sorry to hear that! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46074282) |
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Date: March 20th, 2023 8:43 AM Author: mind-boggling space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46074504) |
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Date: March 19th, 2023 8:17 PM Author: Big tank You should have shown more empathy. Your response would have been appropriate for a flat tire or sprained ankle. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46073033) |
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Date: March 19th, 2023 10:47 PM Author: Transparent State “Well I’m dying to meet up with you haha” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46073529) |
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Date: March 19th, 2023 10:49 PM Author: Multi-colored institution national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46073539) |
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Date: March 19th, 2023 10:55 PM Author: mischievous shivering business firm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46073570) |
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Date: March 20th, 2023 6:20 AM Author: frisky gunner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46074277) |
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Date: March 20th, 2023 6:26 AM Author: Geriatric clear rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46074280) |
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Date: March 20th, 2023 7:27 AM Author: Lime alcoholic private investor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46074368) |
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Date: March 20th, 2023 9:08 AM Author: Fighting blood rage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46074557) |
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Date: March 19th, 2023 10:54 PM Author: Rusted unhinged dilemma clown laughed so hard at the “thanks” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46073567) |
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Date: March 18th, 2023 6:57 PM Author: Beady-eyed Useless Brakes Juggernaut lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46069481) |