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Taking Qs about my monthly escort usage (incel guy here)
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:37 PM Author: underhanded boistinker Think it might be informative or entertaining for you all
I see a rotating cast, but usually the same women, every single month |
Date: September 14th, 2023 3:37 PM Author: 180 stage puppy budget, screening, favorit experiences, agency or independent?
tyia |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:40 PM Author: underhanded boistinker Budget is $2000/month. I make 350Kish. Most of the money is for the visits but I also buy them gifts and tip to make sure I am a valued client.
Screening: I only see the same ones, so it's just initial screening. But they usually need TER reviews. I like social media presence. Evidence they're not going to kill me, evidence they're real, and evidence they don't suck at it.
Favorite experiences: I see one girl, just a massage girl, and she edges me until I am literally dripping, the precum is everywhere, and I cannot hold it back. She is so good at it. She teases me and says the right stuff and holds me a good 5-10 minutes beyond where I am comfortable. And then the release is the most intense every single month.
I prefer independent because I think there is less risk of your shit being exposed.
Some are full service and some are massage. I try to go about once a week just to get rid of my sexual urges so I can return to my IRL incel life. |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:42 PM Author: laughsome tan coffee pot cruise ship "Favorite experiences: I see one girl, just a massage girl, and she edges me until I am literally dripping, the precum is everywhere, and I cannot hold it back. She is so good at it. She teases me and says the right stuff and holds me a good 5-10 minutes beyond where I am comfortable. And then the release is the most intense every single month."
100% cannot relate to why you enjoy this. Seems unpleasant. Why not just nut with much less time & effort? |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:42 PM Author: underhanded boistinker Being properly edged is amazing. A normal civilian girl cannot do this. I love the feeling of having to blow but not quite being able to get over the pump. And then you're eventually released. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797405) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:44 PM Author: laughsome tan coffee pot cruise ship I see this is very weird and likely evidence of some sexual abnormality. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797418) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:44 PM Author: underhanded boistinker ok well whatever
the other interactions are normal intercourse |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:46 PM Author: Sick Ebony Point Watch out, injaculation can be harmful. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797439) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:47 PM Author: underhanded boistinker I always get off in the end, the actual precum phase, with the active denial, is like 5 minutes long (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797446) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 4:27 PM Author: Sick Ebony Point I guess you are getting value for your dollar. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797723) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:35 PM Author: wonderful school How so? Practicing reverse ejaculation based solved my PE issues (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46811952) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:42 PM Author: 180 stage puppy this seems objectively 4000X better than an actual relationship, marriage or whatver the fuck dating is in 2023 not flame tyft (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797401) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:38 PM Author: laughsome tan coffee pot cruise ship Cock size?
(Yours, not the whores) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:40 PM Author: underhanded boistinker I have a very normal dick. Just a hair until 6 inches and with a really hard erection it's probably 6.00000". I have a complex about my HEIGHT but not my dick size. I've made women cum and stuff before in college so it didn't get in my psyche.
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:39 PM Author: Bateful Fat Ankles Rate the experience (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797374) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:42 PM Author: underhanded boistinker I love it. I love the variety. I love how my heart gets pumping when I walk out of the elevator in their apartments and walk down the hall to their door where I know behind it she's waiting for me.
I love how I don't have to return the pleasure or care.
I love how they are nice to me even if it's a financial transaction.
I love how I get off sometimes multiple times with very good looking women.
And then I leave and there's no bullshit for me to deal with. |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:42 PM Author: Passionate legend r u happy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797407) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:43 PM Author: underhanded boistinker In a lot of ways, yes.
But I am literally never going to get married or have kids and a lot of it has to do with my height. |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:44 PM Author: Passionate legend describe ways in which you are not happy? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797419) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:45 PM Author: underhanded boistinker I grew up figuring I'd get married and have kids and a fun happy close family, but instead I... don't. So the expectation isn't met.
I sometimes wonder why I actually work. I like my job. I like to achieve. But it's kinda pointless.
I would love to have a normal woman that wants to have sex with me, but I don't.
It's just something missing, that's all. But in many other ways I am happy. And in fact, in the net happiness aggregate, I am probably happier than many dudes in marriages given the problems they have. |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:48 PM Author: Passionate legend lol at reducing happiness to numbers, LJL just LJL at "net happiness aggregate" you're just trying to fill a void and then convincing yourself that it's actually filled. Sry bro, still not too late to maek it |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:49 PM Author: underhanded boistinker it is too late.
i admit maybe I am trying to cover it up.
what more can I do. |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:51 PM Author: Passionate legend just b urself i guess. maybe do sex tourism (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797473) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 4:37 PM Author: Pontificating curious scourge upon the earth on balance, in balance. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812952) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 4:47 PM Author: sapphire nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813009) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:43 PM Author: Soggy brunch Is this FBSM quotemo? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797411) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:44 PM Author: underhanded boistinker Yeah, but now I also see some non FBSMs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797415) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:45 PM Author: Soggy brunch What happened to your GF? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797429) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:46 PM Author: underhanded boistinker there were two of us
the other guy wouldn't do FS because he was paranoid about the various STDs
I don't have to care
but we were both quotemos who saw FBSMs and posted about it |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:47 PM Author: Soggy brunch Lmfao are you also Jewish? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797445) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:48 PM Author: laughsome tan coffee pot cruise ship His weird sexual perversion about edging strongly hints that he's Jewish. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797450) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:49 PM Author: Soggy brunch This place is so 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797464) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 4:38 PM Author: Pontificating curious scourge upon the earth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812954) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 7:50 PM Author: vibrant menage twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813965) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:47 PM Author: laughsome tan coffee pot cruise ship FBSM? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797447) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:48 PM Author: underhanded boistinker it's industry speak for FULL BODY SENSUAL MASSAGE
sex work w/o intercourse and sometimes a massage element |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:43 PM Author: underhanded boistinker Also escorts show you how fucking bad most normal women are at all of this. The pros know what to do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797414) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:45 PM Author: Rose razzle yarmulke sounds like you're not a true incel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797426) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:46 PM Author: underhanded boistinker true. but I don't really date or have sex with civilians anymore (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797433) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:46 PM Author: Rose razzle yarmulke well that's just being smart (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797434) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:46 PM Author: big garrison macaca Are they all TOAS like previously? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797438) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:47 PM Author: underhanded boistinker no I like a lot more normal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797442) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:48 PM Author: glassy milk Do u rawdog at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797448) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:48 PM Author: underhanded boistinker No, it's really unsafe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797449) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:49 PM Author: laughsome tan coffee pot cruise ship If you're not cheatmoing, why worry about STDs? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797457) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:49 PM Author: underhanded boistinker rawdog with a sex worker seems like a ripe way to get a PERMA-STD
I am not worried about the clap
I am worried about HIV and herpes and shit |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:51 PM Author: laughsome tan coffee pot cruise ship Both 100% flame in this context.
Rawdog it.
Also, you're irrational fear of diseases is a other strong indicator of your Jewisnesses. |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:51 PM Author: underhanded boistinker u got me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797476) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 3:55 PM Author: Maroon frozen address I couldn't live like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46797505) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 6:56 PM Author: Swollen Stage Faggot Firefighter lulzy thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46798338) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 6:59 PM Author: Chrome Racy Den Quadroon If you don't mind paying for sex why not just go to Cambodia or something and find a chick to come over hear and marry you/have your kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46798351) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:18 PM Author: underhanded boistinker She couldn't meet my emotional needs, we'd always be different (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46811893) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 6:05 PM Author: lilac casino tattoo Why would you want to go through all that? This guy would not be a good father and bringing some random foreign girl over here would make him miserable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813433) |
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Date: September 14th, 2023 8:36 PM Author: adulterous range do you ask these girls for advice on how break free from inceldom? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46798728) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:18 PM Author: underhanded boistinker no, I do try to be a really good client though so I give them gifts and tips because I want them to be on time to appointments and give me their full attention (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46811891) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:31 PM Author: Chest-beating Costumed Public Bath Without outing, what is the top of funnel? Where do you even begin to find the girls?
Prices / rates? |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:33 PM Author: underhanded boistinker tryst.link is a great site and most use Twitter (all of these girls now have accounts) theeroticreview dot com (most legit ones, although not all, have reviews)
FS (full service) can be 500-1000, depends on her looks/persona, and how long. I tend to spend 500-700/hour and up to 1000 for 90 minutes.
FBSM can be like 200-500 depending on factors, although most I see for 200-300 an hour and include add-ons like kissing and multiple finishes.
It took years to find a steady rotation. I see the same 4-5 girls in my city spready out over a month or two, so I don't get bored, and then have a few who travel in 1-3x a year that I keep up a relationship with.
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:35 PM Author: Chest-beating Costumed Public Bath Do u go to their apartments (are they gross?) or do you book a nice hotel?
I guess apartment is actually better for opsec if you are a cheatmo. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:37 PM Author: underhanded boistinker Usually they have what's called an "incall" spot, so it will be an apartment they use, or live in, or they get a room. I will buy a hotel room sometimes if I want something different. Two weeks ago I got a room so I could do a special 2 hour appointment with one of my favorites and we drank wine and hung out for actually almost 3 hours.
The apartment quality varies. Some are really nice. None are truly seedy (drugs being sold, rats running around) but some are definitely more like student housing level quality. I actually kinda like a little grunge because it feels like an organic hook up from my past.
I'm not a cheatmo but the hardest thing is the screening these girls have. They want a lot of shit now so I created an elaborate second persona to get around their bullshit. I have a fake LinkedIn, fake ID, etc. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:39 PM Author: Chest-beating Costumed Public Bath Extortion is definitely the number one fear (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46811973) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:40 PM Author: underhanded boistinker These girls make $$$$ from this shit so I am not worried about them extorting me. Most guys shouldn't. The women have a lot to lose.
The issue is if the cops catch them. I wouldn't want my shit connected. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 7:42 PM Author: wonderful school Can you go into more detail on all the fake shit you produced, as if you were writing a detailed instruction manual? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813918) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:34 PM Author: aromatic cowardly heaven genital piercing Post a link to the hottest chick you are familiar with (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46811943) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:41 PM Author: underhanded boistinker My main FS girl makes like 300-400K a year, all tax free btw, and she is balling out of control (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46811980) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:43 PM Author: sapphire nibblets How does she launder her cash? Seems like it would be hard to launder that much money every year. How do you convert cash without the government noticing? Does she own a car wash or a minor league baseball team? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46811991) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:53 PM Author: underhanded boistinker They love to be "students" which I think makes a lot of sense.
The bank isn't reporting their income to the IRS if it's under 10K. The government has no fucking clue. They just slowly over time report $$$ like they're waitresses or strippers or some shit. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:54 PM Author: sapphire nibblets Lmao flame no way. So they have no credit score but can get apartments? Do you know how long it takes to declare 400k in 10k increments without the bank noticing? This is bullshit lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812058) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:56 PM Author: underhanded boistinker I know she has an arrangement where she pays her rent in cash. I know in the past she's reported small amounts. I know that she pays for everything she can in cash. It's hard to track if you commit to it.
But maybe you're right, maybe not all is tax free. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 4:35 PM Author: sapphire nibblets The government loves civil forfeiture. Anyone who gets caught with large sums who can't explain where they got it, with no plausible backstory gets seized and they have to go to court for years to get it back. You can walk around with 400k cash in a duffel bag but you can't go through airport security without getting popped. In fact this is the #1 way prostitution rings are busted. There was one chick a few back who had made millions from hoing/pimping other girls and she got caught having too much money she couldn't explain. So this is a real concern.
She can pay everything in cash but mostly only scummy places have no card on file and no background check or credit score. No nice places allow this. But if you're a Hot Chick I'm sure it's an easier time since simps everywhere will give a Hot Chick a special deal.
But even so if lots of her money is off the books it could take years to launder it all in some formal way. It's not as easy as it looks. There are thousands of drug dealers with 10s of thousands of money buried on a property somewhere who don't know what to do with it. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 6:08 PM Author: lilac casino tattoo Why don't they just start legit businesses and funnel the money through? That's not hard at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813443) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 6:21 PM Author: sapphire nibblets Hookers Inc
I assume this is what EPAH's firm does, helps sex workers go legit. |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:14 PM Author: olive self-absorbed clown jewess "Anyone who gets caught with large sums who can't explain where they got it, with no plausible backstory gets seized"
I don't think this is how it works for good-looking hookers |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:43 PM Author: titillating ruddy location do you do this bc you have an insane sex drive or is it regular (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46811992) |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 3:56 PM Author: underhanded boistinker My sex drive has decreased, thank god, as I got older. I have a regular maybe even below average sex drive, but I do this as a hobby. It's fun. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46817850) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:48 PM Author: Chest-beating Costumed Public Bath How do you broach telling the girls what you want? Do they provide ideas? Do they just go autopilot? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812022) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:50 PM Author: underhanded boistinker I always do what I literally would consider a consultation visit. I go and see them. But I pay them and tip extra even, then spend the first 15-30 minutes seeing if we're a good match. Regardless of match, we still go through with the hour.
But if we're a match I go back and see them regularly and make sure they are reliable. Lots of issues present themselves: some women are flakey, some don't put in the effort, some do drugs, you never know.
After years I settled on a good rotation.
If you see this as a one-off thing, you can just play the game and see who you get.
But I see this almost like getting my haircut. You invest in a long term relationship with the provider so you gotta try it out. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:49 PM Author: Bright box office azn tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812026) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:51 PM Author: Bossy Church Building Degenerate So glad I conquered my need for regular sex. Apparently im saving 30k per yr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812045) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:53 PM Author: underhanded boistinker You know what, I don't know what the fuck I'd do with the money. I really don't. I make enough that every need I have is met. Another 30K in the fucking stock market??? I already invest 100K a year all in.
I legitimately don't know what I'd do with this cash. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 2:01 PM Author: Bossy Church Building Degenerate Seek Jesus Christ the way I did. What to do with spare cash is not a legitimate obstacle. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812109) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 4:54 PM Author: dark deranged mad cow disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813071) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 5:16 PM Author: slippery church Haha yeah haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813189) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 3:31 PM Author: glassy milk What good is the money if not to attract women and eventually build a family (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812562) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 4:48 PM Author: 180 stage puppy Oh boy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813019) |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 3:56 PM Author: underhanded boistinker I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, and that is cool. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46817851) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:54 PM Author: Contagious Pungent Orchestra Pit Wrinkle Seems like a pretty based lifestyle tbh. I’d probably do this if I was truly wealthy
It’s weird that you wear condoms though, like really weird. There’s literally no reason to have sex with a condom on. It’s not even sex |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:55 PM Author: underhanded boistinker No higher end provider does bareback (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46812059) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:57 PM Author: Contagious Pungent Orchestra Pit Wrinkle That seems like flame dude. The truly high end escorts probably just screen guys enough that they can fuck without condoms
Like seriously, condom “sex” is truly awful. I’m not judging you personally I’m just saying that in my experience fucking with a condom on is not even worth the experience |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 1:57 PM Author: underhanded boistinker idk I don't want a truly serious STI
maybe at the uber wealthy level it's not even escorting, it's like "sugar baby" shit where she fucks a CEO without a condom
but not at my level
I'm driving the BMW of escorts, those guys get the Rolls Royce, I can't ball at that level |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 6:06 PM Author: lilac casino tattoo Nor should you ever trust an escort to be clean. She fucks all kinds of disgusting people for a living lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813437) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 7:45 PM Author: Amber School Cafeteria Persian Lots of porn stars provide BBFS. Sophia Leone and Nicole Doshi both reportedly offer it. Many more that I haven't bothered to research for booking do it as well.
You just need testing from talent testing. |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 4:48 PM Author: 180 stage puppy Irl spit out coffee on a dyke couple at Starbucks reading this for some reason (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813024) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 5:17 PM Author: Contagious Pungent Orchestra Pit Wrinkle (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813200) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 8:30 PM Author: galvanic tantric hell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46814215) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 4:44 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig lame questions overall so far
1. what is your height that you are so upset about? 2. why are you so upset about it? 3. describe your prior relationships and why they failed 4. describe why you've given up on finding a spouse and having children 5. are you unable to date properly because you are ugly? rate your looks and personality 0-10. you seem autistic ITT. 6. how are you able to make 350k/year with such poor skills that you cannot attract a spouse? 7. describe your parents reaction to being an incel
jfc people, start with the basics |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 6:01 PM Author: Bossy Church Building Degenerate This is why people consider you a mainstay linchpin of XO
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Date: September 18th, 2023 6:02 PM Author: sapphire nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813416) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 6:08 PM Author: fragrant resort (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813444) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 6:09 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813450) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 7:46 PM Author: wonderful school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813933) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 7:48 PM Author: Bright box office azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813952) |
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Date: September 18th, 2023 7:31 PM Author: Chest-beating Costumed Public Bath Pumo seems to be gone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46813887) |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 3:54 PM Author: underhanded boistinker 1. I am somewhere between 5'7" and 5'8" and legitimately have measured both at different doctor's appointments.
2. I know my height limits most of my interactions with men and women. Men don't respect me. Women don't want to date me.
3. I had 3 serious girlfriends. One in college. She got kinda fat. I grew distant. One after college. She had mental health issues. And then a serious, nearly marriage girl, but after years of being together I uncovered more personality quirks, really bad shit, and made the very difficult decision to end it because I thought we wouldn't work well together forever.
4. I don't want male children to inherit my short genes and be fucked like me. I might actually like a little girl. But I think in general the gene pool is better off without me, plus I really could only mate with a low status female because of my height. I just think the grind of doing it isn't worth the cost. I have just resigned myself to this life.
5. Am I ugly? I don't think so. I have a full head of hair. I'm not autistic at all but I don't know how to prove that. I am probably a smidge above average looking and my personality is not that of a lawyer.
6. I am good at my job, but plenty of guys are good at their job and fucking terrible with women. They're totally mutually exclusive. I think this is evidence that my social skills don't suck, though, because I was able to climb the ladder which requires some social IQ.
7. My mom always encourages me to get back out there but my dad has an ethos of me doing whatever makes me happy. I have siblings with kids so there's no grandkid let down. Actually it means even a little part of my DNA continues on, despite my inceldom.
The hardest thing is that some people assume I'm gay and it's hard to rebut that assumption when I have no gf.
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Date: September 19th, 2023 4:02 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig Ty for your response.
1. 5'7-5'8 is short but it doesn't preclude you from the dating market. Look at CSLG, that little midget cleans up with women. Or look at obeezy, the 5'4" hot stud hockey enforcer. If they can do it why can't you?
2. "Men don't respect me. Women don't want to date me." Height is a factor in respect and dating but there are lots of other factors. I assume you have other qualities that are repellent, like Michael Doodikoff's strange utter repellence to all women in existence.
3. What is "more personality quirks, really bad shit"? Anyway, if you are in your late 30s or early 40s then you're still within the age range of women looking to settle in their young 30s. The older the get the more money you will need for a widening spread, though. $350k/year is fine if you are in the age range discussed if you want a marriagable woman who can have kids.
4. Not trying to convince you otherwise, but yeah, you would probably have to grind it out. Go for a 5'5-5'6" woman if you're that worried about kid height.
5. You post on XO so your personality is bad and you are autistic, sorry
6. Fair
7. Nice not to have that pressure
Why do people think you're gay? Maybe you should lift and take some test |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 4:08 PM Author: underhanded boistinker All pretty fair responses. I probably have some depression. But I am really short. Even short chicks, like 5'2" women, want to wear several inch heels and then expect the guy to be an additional several inches taller than them. That puts the bar at 5'10" for a lot of women.
I understand their are outliers, but my general experience is that height is the most significant limitation on a man, and I drew the short straw here.
People don't tell me "you gay!" but I just sense it. Like a work dinner with spouses. And then it's just me. By myself.
I've just settled into this life and while this contradicts my above point about depression, I am actually content. Maybe my views are poisonous, but my height is an all-consuming specter that haunts my everyday life. |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 4:12 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig If your height is an all-consuming specter that haunts your everyday life, there's always wearing lifts or limb lengthening surgery, brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46817930) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:08 PM Author: underhanded boistinker Lifts will 100% of the time get exposed.
Limb lengthening is ridiculous and also means a future son would still have my DNA. |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 6:02 PM Author: disturbing pit Your view on height is unhinged brother. I am the same height and uglier than you, but I had no problem in my early 30s dating around and ultimately finding a quality wife (I was a biglaw associate at the time so making similar $ to you).
Now I am a biglaw equity partner and have a lot more money but older and uglier and I'm getting a lot higher quality bangs and hookups. I don't even flaunt my money but the hoes can sense it based on how I dress and look. |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 6:22 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46818501) |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 6:49 PM Author: Bossy Church Building Degenerate Very well, pumo, but his experience and point of view mirrors mine- amd I'm 5'9-1/2. I really do think he's right about 5'10 being the minimum 'man' height. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46818572) |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 6:49 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig brother, you've lived in the back of a van for 10 years, its hard to believe your dating difficulties relate to being 5'9.5" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46818577) |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 6:55 PM Author: Bossy Church Building Degenerate Man, it's a 1 ton pickup truck. Anyway, many people have said this to me. But it's not until far into meeting/picking up a woman that she would find this out. So how does it even relate? I have trouble believing this is the problem most men think it is. |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 6:56 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46818599) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:09 PM Author: underhanded boistinker That is pretty much my argument, yes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46821868) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:08 PM Author: underhanded boistinker First, you made way more money than me. $350K now is really nothing and I live in an expensive urban area. I am just an ordinary guy here.
Second, you're probably average looking.
Third, maybe you just got lucky. |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 6:54 PM Author: Chest-beating Costumed Public Bath You are autistic, sorry. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46818592) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:07 PM Author: underhanded boistinker There's really no way I can disprove you but I do think my meager professional success is evidence I have some social IQ. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46821857) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 2:44 PM Author: Rambunctious lodge Im also 5’8 and found a lot of women, especially in the 5’0-5’4 range were still open to dating. my wife is 5’3. Imo, things like lack of confidence and poor social skills are likely much bigger factors holding you back rather than your height
Also, if you’re open to dating Asian/Hispanic/middle eastern etc a lot of these ethnic women will likely see you as average height rather than short |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:06 PM Author: underhanded boistinker Luis, you have the face of a Greek god. I know who you are. I am nothing like you. Yes, you, a short guy, got a wife because you're fucking great looking and lived a charmed life. You made Peter North go insane, in fact, BECAUSE of how charmed your life is. You are nothing like me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46821849) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:07 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig charmed but for his back....! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46821859) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 5:47 PM Author: Rambunctious lodge Back was killing me in court during my sex offender clients hearing today (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46822631) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 5:59 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig did you "get him off" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46822658) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:06 PM Author: chocolate confused codepig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46821850) |
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Date: September 19th, 2023 4:30 PM Author: Appetizing cruel-hearted useless brakes gunner Does the price change if you are attractive and tall? always wondered this. Seems odd that some little dork pays the same price as Chad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5405864&forum_id=2#46817994) |
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Date: September 20th, 2023 3:05 PM Author: underhanded boistinker No. They might do extra things though if you're hot. I've heard of girls who say they won't do CIM but then will if the guy is really good looking or hung.
It's a business. The want $$$$. |