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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
Marvelous round eye kitchen
  05/20/22
Jfc
elite fragrant home
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
Motley Dark Clown
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
Marvelous round eye kitchen
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
Link?
elite fragrant home
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
insecure jet-lagged affirmative action really tough guy
  05/20/22
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purple trailer park mother
  05/20/22
no
Sickened state elastic band
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
Crystalline dead dragon
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
Crystalline dead dragon
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
Crystalline dead dragon
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
Sickened state elastic band
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
Crystalline dead dragon
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
Sickened state elastic band
  05/20/22
good for you two.
Crystalline dead dragon
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
Sickened state elastic band
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
peach twisted goyim
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
Crystalline dead dragon
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
ruby misanthropic heaven degenerate
  05/20/22
for the most part.
Crystalline dead dragon
  05/20/22
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Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
Ocher Mad-dog Skullcap
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
Sickened state elastic band
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
histrionic macaca meetinghouse
  05/21/22
rare honesty
Gay Massive Gaping
  05/20/22
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Bateful brass cuck
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
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Gay Massive Gaping
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
Saffron gunner institution
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
Saffron gunner institution
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
Saffron gunner institution
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
Magenta useless brakes new version
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
Saffron gunner institution
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
Saffron gunner institution
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
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Demanding Naked Old Irish Cottage
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
Demanding Naked Old Irish Cottage
  05/20/22
well this response for one
Gay Massive Gaping
  05/20/22
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maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
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Saffron gunner institution
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
Sickened state elastic band
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
Sickened state elastic band
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
Sickened state elastic band
  05/20/22
fair
maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Cerebral scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
Demanding Naked Old Irish Cottage
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Galvanic keepsake machete hall
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
Ultramarine Swashbuckling Dog Poop
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
sable sanctuary dysfunction
  05/21/22
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maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
coalition of rabbis
  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Marvelous round eye kitchen

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: elite fragrant home

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Motley Dark Clown

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: Marvelous round eye kitchen

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: elite fragrant home

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: insecure jet-lagged affirmative action really tough guy

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: purple trailer park mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Sickened state elastic band

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: Crystalline dead dragon

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: Crystalline dead dragon

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Crystalline dead dragon

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: Sickened state elastic band

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: Crystalline dead dragon

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Sickened state elastic band

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Crystalline dead dragon

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: Sickened state elastic band

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: peach twisted goyim

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Crystalline dead dragon

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: ruby misanthropic heaven degenerate

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: Crystalline dead dragon

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: Ocher Mad-dog Skullcap

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: Sickened state elastic band

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: histrionic macaca meetinghouse

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: Gay Massive Gaping

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: Bateful brass cuck



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: Gay Massive Gaping



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Saffron gunner institution

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: Saffron gunner institution

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: Saffron gunner institution

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: Magenta useless brakes new version

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: Saffron gunner institution

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: Saffron gunner institution

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: Demanding Naked Old Irish Cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: Demanding Naked Old Irish Cottage

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: Gay Massive Gaping

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Saffron gunner institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: Sickened state elastic band

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: Sickened state elastic band

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: Sickened state elastic band

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Cerebral scourge upon the earth

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: Demanding Naked Old Irish Cottage

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Galvanic keepsake machete hall

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: Ultramarine Swashbuckling Dog Poop

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: sable sanctuary dysfunction

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: maize twinkling uncleanness pisswyrm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44552011)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#50093931)