Date: May 15th, 2011 7:06 PM Author: puce razzle newt
since my bf is the topic of discussion today...
what do i do?
bf is hot and all but i have a crush on my co-worker. he is gorgeous. hes like 6'5, black, muscular, people call him Big [his name]. i think he likes me and he flirts with me.
Date: May 15th, 2011 7:08 PM Author: vivacious olive ladyboy
lol. you have to decide whether you like your bf enough to forego pursuing the other guy. if you do both, it's not really justifiable though i withhold all judgment.
Date: May 15th, 2011 7:09 PM Author: submissive point giraffe
Continue flirting with the guy until it destroys your relationship. Your new-found stability in life is uncomfortable, so you need to find some way to screw it all up.
Date: May 15th, 2011 7:14 PM Author: submissive point giraffe
I guess your instincts to self-destruct are more powerful than I thought. Just let nature take its course and enjoy being single in a couple weeks. Quitting the job might then be a good way to resolve the following situation.
Date: May 15th, 2011 7:16 PM Author: frisky coffee pot lodge
"I quit because I felt like I needed to make a change in my life. After my break up I didn't think I could be happy by continuing on the same course, so I sent in my two weeks notice and started to think about what I am going to do next. Right now my top two choices are doing a second ug degree in nursing at Penn (love the party scene in philly!) and getting a masters in public health. I'll try to decide within the next year or so."
Date: May 15th, 2011 7:24 PM Author: submissive point giraffe
I didn't say you'd cheat. I said you'd destroy your relationship by continuing to flirt and nurture a childish crush. I then speculated that in the ensuing period of increased emotional instability you would quit your job.
Date: May 15th, 2011 7:14 PM Author: frisky coffee pot lodge
Doesn't matter. You let it continue without trying to stop it. You are just as guilty as a girl actively involved in a flirtatious conversation. Secondly, there is no such thing as one sided flirting.
Date: May 15th, 2011 7:28 PM Author: puce razzle newt
aww thanks
everytime i see people i havent seen in a long time they say i look soooo different. i love it! some old white guy asked me if i was a model the other day lol
Date: May 20th, 2011 6:25 PM Author: puce razzle newt
ok i have been working w this guy and he is a moron and a jerk. he thinks hpv is a herpes virus and chewed me out when i didn't agree with him. crush gone.
Date: May 20th, 2011 6:31 PM Author: submissive point giraffe
At least you're mature enough to realize that you picked the wrong guy to have a crush on instead of admitting that you shouldn't be indulging some childish crush while in a relationship you're happy with.
Date: May 20th, 2011 6:37 PM Author: puce razzle newt
no im po'
anyway i dont really want to prove him wrong
i just want him to stop picking fights w me and trying to make me look stupid
he asked me "what's the difference between gonorrhea and chlamydia" - i don't even WORK with STDs, only hiv!" i said "um they're two different infections caused by different bacteria. whats the difference between a cat and a dog?" he was not happy w that answer lol. then he asked me whats the difference between the symptoms and i pointed out that most women don't even have symptoms and many men don't and that when people DO have symptoms chlamydia and gonorrhea often present the same way (penis discharge, itchiness, redness, both cause PID, etc.) and that even doctors can't tell the difference and have to do tests. he said i was wrong and only understand the infections "superficially." he still hasnt told me which symptoms gonorrhea has that chlamydia doesn't, and vice versa.
Date: May 20th, 2011 6:46 PM Author: puce razzle newt
i think youre correct
i get along really well w my supervisor, she's a sweetheart and like a second mom to me, we always discuss movies (today how much she hated black swan lol the other day cool hand luke) and travel and restaurants and whatnot but my actual co-workers are out to lunch. they are stupid and have complexes.