Date: January 25th, 2010 4:07 PM Author: Federal lemon school cafeteria cuckold
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:15 PM
Author: tuberculosis (tbtp)
please please please don't read this if you consider me a little sister on any level... ugh, i know you still will. :/
- when we got to my dorm room, told me that i had a choice: either i could give myself to him completely or he'd leave. he wouldn't let me kiss him as i stalled, asking if he'd respect that i don't want to lose my virginity.
- eventually promised that he wouldn't fuck me yet (beta?) and asked if i wanted to suck his dick. wrapped his belt around my neck and choked me as i... yeah you don't need details. there are marks on my neck from the buckle lol. also spit on me periodically, which got eye makeup in one of my eyes and made it all red and irritated. i didn't think he noticed but he later said that it was hot.
- took a video of me leaning back to choke myself, with eyeliner streaming down my face from when i cried from gagging.
- came in my mouth/on my face.
- makes me call him "daddy".
- says i'm "JAPpy and annoying". BUT he promised that he liked me as a person. i was like, "you just like me b/c i'm young and submissive. would you hang out with me if i were a guy?" and he laughed and said "no, that'd be weird" and i said "okay how about if i were a lesbian?" and he said "yeah, i would. i'd text you. i don't have friends."
- his "number" is 34. he had chlamydia at one point and thinks he has HPV.
- says he never uses a condom and that he's really good at pulling out. i was like "WTF HAVE YOU HEARD OF PRECUM?" and he was all, "that's not worth worrying about."
don't lose respect for me; i'm just having fun. :) i'll be careful and won't let him fuck me until i'm ready, which i don't think will be soon.
Date: December 15th, 2010 3:31 PM Author: deep amber filthpig
i love that you freely volunteered all this shit but then bitched when someone preserved it -- like i love how you're always going pumo but then making sure everyone knows it's you
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:41 PM Author: Mint titillating digit ratio corner
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:07 PM
Author: jonnyBlaze
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:15 PM
Author: tuberculosis (tbtp)
please please please don't read this if you consider me a little sister on any level... ugh, i know you still will. :/
- when we got to my dorm room, told me that i had a choice: either i could give myself to him completely or he'd leave. he wouldn't let me kiss him as i stalled, asking if he'd respect that i don't want to lose my virginity.
- eventually promised that he wouldn't fuck me yet (beta?) and asked if i wanted to suck his dick. wrapped his belt around my neck and choked me as i... yeah you don't need details. there are marks on my neck from the buckle lol. also spit on me periodically, which got eye makeup in one of my eyes and made it all red and irritated. i didn't think he noticed but he later said that it was hot.
- took a video of me leaning back to choke myself, with eyeliner streaming down my face from when i cried from gagging.
- came in my mouth/on my face.
- makes me call him "daddy".
- says i'm "JAPpy and annoying". BUT he promised that he liked me as a person. i was like, "you just like me b/c i'm young and submissive. would you hang out with me if i were a guy?" and he laughed and said "no, that'd be weird" and i said "okay how about if i were a lesbian?" and he said "yeah, i would. i'd text you. i don't have friends."
- his "number" is 34. he had chlamydia at one point and thinks he has HPV.
- says he never uses a condom and that he's really good at pulling out. i was like "WTF HAVE YOU HEARD OF PRECUM?" and he was all, "that's not worth worrying about."
don't lose respect for me; i'm just having fun. :) i'll be careful and won't let him fuck me until i'm ready, which i don't think will be soon.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:51 PM Author: iridescent business firm community account
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:41 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:07 PM
Author: jonnyBlaze
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:15 PM
Author: tuberculosis (tbtp)
please please please don't read this if you consider me a little sister on any level... ugh, i know you still will. :/
- when we got to my dorm room, told me that i had a choice: either i could give myself to him completely or he'd leave. he wouldn't let me kiss him as i stalled, asking if he'd respect that i don't want to lose my virginity.
- eventually promised that he wouldn't fuck me yet (beta?) and asked if i wanted to suck his dick. wrapped his belt around my neck and choked me as i... yeah you don't need details. there are marks on my neck from the buckle lol. also spit on me periodically, which got eye makeup in one of my eyes and made it all red and irritated. i didn't think he noticed but he later said that it was hot.
- took a video of me leaning back to choke myself, with eyeliner streaming down my face from when i cried from gagging.
- came in my mouth/on my face.
- makes me call him "daddy".
- says i'm "JAPpy and annoying". BUT he promised that he liked me as a person. i was like, "you just like me b/c i'm young and submissive. would you hang out with me if i were a guy?" and he laughed and said "no, that'd be weird" and i said "okay how about if i were a lesbian?" and he said "yeah, i would. i'd text you. i don't have friends."
- his "number" is 34. he had chlamydia at one point and thinks he has HPV.
- says he never uses a condom and that he's really good at pulling out. i was like "WTF HAVE YOU HEARD OF PRECUM?" and he was all, "that's not worth worrying about."
don't lose respect for me; i'm just having fun. :) i'll be careful and won't let him fuck me until i'm ready, which i don't think will be soon.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:53 PM Author: fluffy french chef party of the first part
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:41 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:07 PM
Author: jonnyBlaze
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:15 PM
Author: tuberculosis (tbtp)
please please please don't read this if you consider me a little sister on any level... ugh, i know you still will. :/
- when we got to my dorm room, told me that i had a choice: either i could give myself to him completely or he'd leave. he wouldn't let me kiss him as i stalled, asking if he'd respect that i don't want to lose my virginity.
- eventually promised that he wouldn't fuck me yet (beta?) and asked if i wanted to suck his dick. wrapped his belt around my neck and choked me as i... yeah you don't need details. there are marks on my neck from the buckle lol. also spit on me periodically, which got eye makeup in one of my eyes and made it all red and irritated. i didn't think he noticed but he later said that it was hot.
- took a video of me leaning back to choke myself, with eyeliner streaming down my face from when i cried from gagging.
- came in my mouth/on my face.
- makes me call him "daddy".
- says i'm "JAPpy and annoying". BUT he promised that he liked me as a person. i was like, "you just like me b/c i'm young and submissive. would you hang out with me if i were a guy?" and he laughed and said "no, that'd be weird" and i said "okay how about if i were a lesbian?" and he said "yeah, i would. i'd text you. i don't have friends."
- his "number" is 34. he had chlamydia at one point and thinks he has HPV.
- says he never uses a condom and that he's really good at pulling out. i was like "WTF HAVE YOU HEARD OF PRECUM?" and he was all, "that's not worth worrying about."
don't lose respect for me; i'm just having fun. :) i'll be careful and won't let him fuck me until i'm ready, which i don't think will be soon.
Date: January 26th, 2010 12:52 AM Author: Bateful really tough guy marketing idea
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:53 PM
Author: T M F
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:41 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:07 PM
Author: jonnyBlaze
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:15 PM
Author: tuberculosis (tbtp)
please please please don't read this if you consider me a little sister on any level... ugh, i know you still will. :/
- when we got to my dorm room, told me that i had a choice: either i could give myself to him completely or he'd leave. he wouldn't let me kiss him as i stalled, asking if he'd respect that i don't want to lose my virginity.
- eventually promised that he wouldn't fuck me yet (beta?) and asked if i wanted to suck his dick. wrapped his belt around my neck and choked me as i... yeah you don't need details. there are marks on my neck from the buckle lol. also spit on me periodically, which got eye makeup in one of my eyes and made it all red and irritated. i didn't think he noticed but he later said that it was hot.
- took a video of me leaning back to choke myself, with eyeliner streaming down my face from when i cried from gagging.
- came in my mouth/on my face.
- makes me call him "daddy".
- says i'm "JAPpy and annoying". BUT he promised that he liked me as a person. i was like, "you just like me b/c i'm young and submissive. would you hang out with me if i were a guy?" and he laughed and said "no, that'd be weird" and i said "okay how about if i were a lesbian?" and he said "yeah, i would. i'd text you. i don't have friends."
- his "number" is 34. he had chlamydia at one point and thinks he has HPV.
- says he never uses a condom and that he's really good at pulling out. i was like "WTF HAVE YOU HEARD OF PRECUM?" and he was all, "that's not worth worrying about."
don't lose respect for me; i'm just having fun. :) i'll be careful and won't let him fuck me until i'm ready, which i don't think will be soon.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:54 PM Author: Indecent property
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:51 PM
Author: R A W S E X D O O D
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:41 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:07 PM
Author: jonnyBlaze
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:15 PM
Author: tuberculosis (tbtp)
please please please don't read this if you consider me a little sister on any level... ugh, i know you still will. :/
- when we got to my dorm room, told me that i had a choice: either i could give myself to him completely or he'd leave. he wouldn't let me kiss him as i stalled, asking if he'd respect that i don't want to lose my virginity.
- eventually promised that he wouldn't fuck me yet (beta?) and asked if i wanted to suck his dick. wrapped his belt around my neck and choked me as i... yeah you don't need details. there are marks on my neck from the buckle lol. also spit on me periodically, which got eye makeup in one of my eyes and made it all red and irritated. i didn't think he noticed but he later said that it was hot.
- took a video of me leaning back to choke myself, with eyeliner streaming down my face from when i cried from gagging.
- came in my mouth/on my face.
- makes me call him "daddy".
- says i'm "JAPpy and annoying". BUT he promised that he liked me as a person. i was like, "you just like me b/c i'm young and submissive. would you hang out with me if i were a guy?" and he laughed and said "no, that'd be weird" and i said "okay how about if i were a lesbian?" and he said "yeah, i would. i'd text you. i don't have friends."
- his "number" is 34. he had chlamydia at one point and thinks he has HPV.
- says he never uses a condom and that he's really good at pulling out. i was like "WTF HAVE YOU HEARD OF PRECUM?" and he was all, "that's not worth worrying about."
don't lose respect for me; i'm just having fun. :) i'll be careful and won't let him fuck me until i'm ready, which i don't think will be soon.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:20 PM Author: sickened forum
he said he just thinks he has it b/c he's fucked so many girls. i'm on gardasil. i asked what he would do with the video and he said that he "sometimes post[s] them online" but was joking. i was like, "wait, REALLY, or do you post them online in the same way that you do coke?" and he laughed and said the latter. (he convinced me that he did coke for a few minutes but doesn't actually.) yeah i trust him.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:23 PM Author: sickened forum
man it's fine. i almost turned him away in the beginning and if he tries to pressure me into anything that i'm not 100% comfortable with, i will not hesitate to do so.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:29 PM Author: sickened forum
if this helps, my parents know i'm seeing him and are fine with it. i mean, they're not HAPPY that i trust guys from the Internet, and they made me text them periodically to assure them i was safe.
obviously they don't know about the things described in the OP, but the fact that they're okay with my getting together with him makes me feel like it's more okay. plus, my mom and i had a good talk about sex stuff that just reinforced my intention to avoid losing my virginity outside of the context of a serious, respectful relationship.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:35 PM Author: Pungent hairraiser church goyim
Your parents are being more permissive than I would be of my own daughter, but their support is also not relevant to my objections.
I view the acts you describe as inherently denigrating to your dignity, and object to them in the same way I would object to one of my friends deciding, with full permission of everybody he knows, to become obese or to do lots of drugs or something like that.
Obviously you disagree and since this is a free country, you get to go ahead and do what you want. But I am also 100% free to condemn your behavior if I want to.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:37 PM Author: sickened forum
degradation is in the eye of the (potentially) degraded. i WANT this. it's fun degradation in a sexual context, not something that is actually subtracting from my dignity.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:50 PM Author: Shaky site police squad
they don't usually post things like this. and last time i checked her facebook account etc are not common knowledge. you can do what you want, but i think you will regret this.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:30 PM Author: sickened forum
he was the one who brought up making it a "relationship" and exclusive. he let me ask him questions about his past (we talked a lot after) and apparently he's cheated on past GFs, and i was like, "look, if you want to do stuff with other girls we don't have to make it exclusive" and he was like, "i just need to be SATED. i think you can do that."
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:35 PM Author: sickened forum
well, if it comes to that, i'll refuse.
what's important here is that we like each other a lot as people; we like hanging out and talking. if i do ever fuck him, it'll be months into a stable, respectful relationship.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:32 PM Author: sickened forum
he was the one who brought up "girlfriend"/"boyfriend" stuff.
lol another thing is that he's really possessive... he gets really mad when i mention exes. it's like his pet peeve. he says it's fine as long as i shut up when he tells me to lol.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:37 PM Author: Exhilarant jap hospital
i really hope someone revives the xoxohth spirit of old and 1) finds the video after it's online 2) sends this thread to her profs, friends, FRIENDs, and parents.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:41 PM Author: clear place of business theater stage
"I'm not a slut. Virginity is a special thing and I don't want to lose it outside a serious relationship! That's why I just let him strangle me with a belt and spit on me as I sucked his dick and he filmed it!"
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:53 PM Author: clear place of business theater stage
Perhaps in terms of the tightness of the belt you were not close to dying, but in terms of the sanity of the internet guy who was holding the belt you were very close.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:56 PM Author: Ruddy frozen mad-dog skullcap generalized bond
I suspect that most women do thanks to the stupidity of being so young and the assholish nature of most men. You'd be surprised as to how many young girls around 18-21 years old have offered to be my "special friend" as a way of trying to eventually become my girlfriend.
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:48 PM Author: cheese-eating primrose fat ankles queen of the night
It's the so-called "technical virginity". I was a Catholic schoolgirl and I had friends who blew their bfs but didn't sleep with them but I never heard of anyone doing anal to preserve their virginity.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:59 PM Author: sickened forum
i waver back and forth as to whether virginity is a big deal or just hyped up. right now i think that the stigma is reasonable, because sex has the potential to completely fucking ruin your life (through pregnancy and disease). you can get diseases from oral sex, too, but the risks are much greater for actual intercourse.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:07 PM Author: Boyish University
The concern comes more from it being your first date with the guy than the actual act- Choke out sex play is pretty vanilla in a long term relationship, downright dangerous on a first date. Small difference, but when you get older you'll understand.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:29 PM Author: sickened forum
what, like if he killed me? idk, but if you're gonna treat one situation as potentially life-threatening, you really have to start looking around at ALL of the potentially life-threatening situations everyone enters into every day.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:33 PM Author: Boyish University
Uh...Pretty sure thats what every does all the time, thats why I DO do things like drive a car, go to work, and have sex and DON'T do things like share needles, fight mike tyson, or get choked by strangers.
Date: January 26th, 2010 12:15 AM Author: sickened forum
i just mean that if people think being choked by a belt is at all extreme or dangerous, they obviously know nothing about anything outside of really standard, conventional sex.
the fact that i didn't know him well does come into play w/r/t dangerousness, but still.
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:59 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
I'm guessing most of those girls lose it to a classmate in fumbling basement sex, not with a sexually dominant older guy who first choked them with a belt and filmed it. Considering you've waited this long, losing your virginity to this guy and becoming his fuck slave will probably have a long term effect on your sex life.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:09 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
From what you posted in the OP, it's a distinct possibility. You obviously like giving over to this guy, and he's already convinced you to do something you've admitted you're not comfortable with (filming). It starts with pushing the lines of what you're ok with in an "exclusive" relationship and ends with him parading you around a swingers party on a leash.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:13 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
PERSPECTIVELY would you have been ok with it? If not, that's exactly what I'm talking about- you like submitting to him. Which is fine, but you should know where this road goes.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:22 PM Author: sickened forum
i know that the distinction doesn't do much to counter the idea that i could fuck up, but i consider it an important one nevertheless. sure, i might do something i regret (like let him take a video) because i'm caught up in the moment, but there are some lines that i've drawn beforehand that i will not cross even in the heat of passion or wahtever.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:27 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
Out of curiosity, what are these lines?
And I'm saying that your lack of experience and your age make it likely that those lines become blurred or obliterated. If we couldn't convince girls to cross those lines, only gays would get anal.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:31 PM Author: sickened forum
i'm not ready for vaginal or anal sex anytime soon. as far as pain goes, i don't want to do anything that would leave bruises or would bleed. that's all i can think of offhand.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:37 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
I'd say three more encounters with this guy and he'll be balls deep with a fistful of your hair calling you a filthy whore and your hands are tied behind your back. No prohibition on group sex?
Date: January 25th, 2010 3:52 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
Jesus, you're jumping right into the deep end with this guy. Honestly, if that's first date stuff, he's into much weirder shit and there will probably be situations that will present stuff you're not comfortable with now that you will submit to when he brings it up.
Which is not to say you shouldn't do it, bit this is going to ruin vanilla sex in a regular relationship for you until you're 25.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:01 PM Author: sickened forum
ugh idk. i mean, one FRIEND whom i trusted enough to talk to about this begged me to post it because he wanted to see xo's reaction, so i can blame that, but i think that was just an excuse.
honestly, i think i feel a little bit in over my head and telling you guys what's going on is cathartic.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:22 PM Author: Bat shit crazy space boiling water
naive and attention-whoring, sure; appalling, no
I'm all for kinky sex stuff, but you went about this all wrong, and your grasping to the strings of virginity to preserve some facade of purity is ridiculous.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:24 PM Author: sickened forum
the virginity thing has nothing to do with purity; it's about the fact that as poor as my choices may be, at least i have no danger of ruining my fucking life by getting pregnant or HIV or something.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:27 PM Author: Bat shit crazy space boiling water
What is this, the 19th century? Get an IUD and buy some condoms and have at it, fool. You can also avoid HIV if you have sex with people who don't have 35 partners, have confirmation of being tested, or aren't black and/or gay. HTH
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:42 PM Author: Bat shit crazy space boiling water
The pill/nuvaring/IUD, used properly, are 99%, with some studies even saying 99.9%.
Condoms are cited at 92%, but guaranteed some of that error is due to people who didn't put the shit on correctly even if they thought they did. Just don't be a retard. Ever played with a condom? It's fucking indestructable. And of course, lube lube lube.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:47 PM Author: sickened forum
i still just don't feel ready for that. idk. it's illogical, i know, and i'm not sure why i feel that way. maybe elementary school health class scare tactics just worked really well... who knows. but each person has the right to set out her own boundaries, no matter how irrational they may be, and i happen to be comfortable with violent face-fucking but not the idea of actual intercourse.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:54 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
"I happen go be comfortable with a violent face-fucking."
As I become closer to raising a daughter and farther away from fucking random sluts, the prospect of girls being raised by the Internet begins to frighten me.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:35 PM Author: richard clock
ITT: An IVY LEAGUER posits that getting the clap or becoming an amateur internet pron celebrity would be less "life ruining" than the slim chance of getting preggerz through birth control sex.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:16 PM Author: richard clock
Beyond the poor judgment in letting some random stranger who couldn't give two shits about you film himself choking and spitting on you while you give him a bj (video coming to a tubesite near you sometime soon, no doubt), posting about this encounter is even stupider. If this becomes common knowledge, you are going to become radioactive to doods other than those who also want to treat you like trash. Kinky sex is cool, its the letting some random dirtbag completely take advantage of you that isnt. But maybe that's what you're after, I don't know. It just seems pretty dumb.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:23 PM Author: richard clock
im actually one who thinks that its better to have a sexually experienced mate for the long-term, but if i found out a girl did what was described in the op with an internet random i think that would be an absolute dealbreaker even if it was when she was 18. maybe a failing on my part but no way i could get over that.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:22 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
Yeah, the sex is fine in and of itself, the problem is she doesn't really know how to handle it. She's pretty naive and this experience and the semi public nature of it will probably fuck her up.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:24 PM Author: richard clock
also, if youre going to start experimenting, dood from okcupid who you just met at a mall who is making ultimatums is probably not the guy to do it with
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:24 PM Author: Tripping pale trust fund
wow, an xoxo poster is being judgmental. never thought i'd see the day where hideous ugly losers who stalk women on the internet would judge the very women they stalk.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:20 PM Author: clear place of business theater stage
This is now a sub thread speculating how we will see gain access to the video:
Plan 1
We set up a dummy box decoy on okcupid and wait for the guy to reply and ask why she has two accounts. We then either off him money (he's obviously poor with questionable morals) or wait for them to break up and get him to send the video that way.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:29 PM Author: soul-stirring burgundy kitchen
Jesus you're a fucking moron. I'm glad I never met you because god knows I could've probably had you doing porn in the scili bathroom for free. You think anybody you talk to for five minutes is a saint and are the most insecure person on the planet. Feel free to drop by the womens center when you're inevitably raped or beaten
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:36 PM Author: sickened forum
"go out and have fun! have some sex! but do it in a traditional, safe way, like getting wasted at a frat party! meeting up with a guy with whom you've had extended contact for a month and participating in mutually enjoyable activities makes you a worthless whore!"
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:41 PM Author: soul-stirring burgundy kitchen
YYeah at least when you're drunk its an excuse all people use for being stupid. Don't worry though, at this rate you'll probably be talked into joining s cult just because Jim Jones convinced you he was a good guy
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:34 PM Author: Dashing striped hyena
you get the point. I hate when you act all obtuse when you know exactly what we're driving at - it's the most annoying aspect of having a conversation with you.
I don't normally do the "99% sure this is flame, but just in case..." but this situation is too fucked up for me not to chime in - especially since everything you've posted earlier tends to indicate that you're an impressionable young girl who is getting into this for all the wrong reasons.
Then again, if not flame, you've apparently made up your mind. You want to jump headfirst into an abusive relationship with someone you barely know, go for it.
Keep in mind that once again xoxo will be right, once again, and you'll be wrong.
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:37 PM Author: sickened forum
i don't think you understand that that comment was directed toward ohnoes, whose reaction i found particularly illogical because he had told me in the past to have fun and have sex and stuff.
it's not an "abusive relationship"; it's one where the power is unevenly distributed, to the liking of both participants.
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:44 PM Author: Dashing striped hyena
Unequal power distributions are not always bad in relationships, and bondage/slight pain fantasies are not necessarily unhealthy either.
Done at the insistence of one party, on the first date, that leads to gagging and tears by someone who is quite literally a stranger, is not. Your protestations otherwise cannot change that simple fact.
Look, you obviously enjoy these acts (and perversely enjoy the attention you get from posting about them), and I won't psychoanalyze why that is. But I'm not going to coddle you and tell you that it's at all healthy, because it's not. Literally EVERY SINGLE PERSON thinks is a bad idea, LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE PERSON has told you this guy sounds like a fucking serial killer. Are you taking none of this to heart? How fucking stupid can you be?
Feel free to respond with whatever bullshit you want, because I won't play this silly little game with you. Good luck discovering whatever it is you're looking for.
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:59 PM Author: sickened forum
wtf? it wasn't done at the insistence of one party. i WANTED to do it; otherwise i would have just let him leave. i just didn't want to give him free reign, because there are still things i'd feel uncomfortable doing. but what we did wasn't among those things.
Date: January 25th, 2010 9:05 PM Author: Dashing striped hyena
as usual, you nitpick with one tiny part of a post (a part that isn't even wrong, based on the information you gave us) and missed the rest of what was said in addition to the broader point.
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:48 PM Author: Excitant Lodge Hominid
The way you described how the incident happened doesn't make it seem very equal. You said you wanted to kiss, and he said that there was going to be some kind of sex or that things were over. I'm not at all against this kind of sex. What I find worrying is that it seems like he's crazy possessive and controlling.
Date: January 25th, 2010 9:03 PM Author: sickened forum
ugh i didn't do a good job describing this.
he said it was all or nothing. i said "no, no, i want to do things but not sex." this went on for a while. eventually he agreed to oral, which was fine with me.
Date: January 25th, 2010 9:06 PM Author: Excitant Lodge Hominid
"he said it was all or nothing."
I find even this attitude to be troublesome. I mean, I know guys who don't like certain sexual acts, but "all or nothing" tends to mean "I am trying to manipulate you so you'll agree to all."
Didn't you also post today about how he was the jealous type? Just...be careful with this one? There are plenty of good guys who are into the kind of sex you seem to like, but it's also an opportunity for guys who are creeps to get their rocks off. I find that the good ones are willing to go a little slower.
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:57 PM Author: cheese-eating primrose fat ankles queen of the night
Assuming this isn't flame, don't you think you are kind of diving right into the deep end? What are you going to do when being throatfucked, choked, spat on and filmed is passe?
I'm all in favour of consensual BDSM play in a relationship but take some babysteps please. Get into a relationship and let it evolve from there. It's actually a lot more exciting when you work up to things rather than just do them straight out.
I'm not a psychologist but if you go on this way meeting complete strangers I think you are taking a chance of really getting messed up as well as possibly getting seriously physically hurt.
Date: January 25th, 2010 9:07 PM Author: sickened forum
yeah, i generally like to take things slowly in a relationship so as not to... you know... desensitize. that's a credited point. but i'm okay with doing it this way, because the realm of things i'd be comfortable with is pretty inclusive and it'd take a while to run out, so to speak.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:33 PM Author: charcoal heaven
i really wonder if this girl would have participated in these activities while thinking about how "alpha" this dude was if she'd never found this website.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:36 PM Author: charcoal heaven
sure, maybe now. xo has a way of changing people's attitudes about shit, and it makes you wonder if that's sort of what happened to the 18 year old college freshman virgin who all of a sudden is getting spit on and choked by an internet guy.
most guys aren't comfortable with the idea of suggesting bondage on a 1st date
if this guy IS, it seems he's kinda out of touch with most people's sexual limitations. did you say anything on the date about being into B&D or was this just out of the blue?
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:47 PM Author: cocky yarmulke station
It's kinda of what bel does. She jokingly posts threads about fashion or proles so that she can start some sort of controversy, but really she's just sitting back laughing at a bunch of 30 yo old lawyers getting their panties in a bunch.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:43 PM Author: Emerald genital piercing
Box- ask this guy to tell you about the hottest, nastiest, craziest sexual experience he's ever had. Then be prepared to top that, in a big way. Girls like you are goldmines for guys like this. Proceed accordingly.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:50 PM Author: sick blue private investor meetinghouse
I cried a little for you. I'm sorry for whatever somebody did to fuck you up so badly. Your sense of priorities and self-worth are totally out of whack. Please get some therapy. Take care of yourself.
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:57 PM Author: sick blue private investor meetinghouse
This was more than sex. Some guy you just met spat in your eye and strangled you with a belt (enough to leave marks) while filming it. That's not respecting yourself... you (and this asshole) were getting off on your body being injured and denigrated. :(
(edit- Also see the part where he insults you and you mentioning (almost brag about?) his STDs and # of sex partners. And post the details online.)
Date: January 25th, 2010 4:51 PM Author: lurid anal narrative
ROFL at all the outraged silly bitches in here jealous that they weren't the ones doing it to her. This is the definition of alpha according to such MFE's on the subject as :D. Sex is just two groups of atoms bumping and grinding. She'll have no regrets at all. She could always be flaming us, like guess this one did. Regardless, SHE DO WHAT SHE WANT YOU GO GIRL!!!!
The Box gets choked, spit on, and cum on on her first date with a random dood from OK Cupid. Brags about him being alpha and her keeping her virginity.
Date: January 25th, 2010 5:36 PM Author: French hideous field dopamine
i know this is flame. yet i am strangely aroused. also, there was a thread with a link to a porn video on this board that was quite a bit like what box describes. a girl getting semi-violently facialized and spit on and crying about it....
but anyway, i do hope its true. i really want to see this video. oh well, i'm off to masturbate now.
Date: January 25th, 2010 5:45 PM Author: appetizing buff indian lodge
TCR
I waited until the hype had died down a bit.
I thought long and hard as to what the credited meme was for this flame.
I've decided upon...
oh, xo
Edit: I suppose I should have been more scrutinizing about the poast I chose to TCR. While I heartily support the poasters right to be aroused by this, I can't say I share the feeling.
Date: January 25th, 2010 6:25 PM Author: Excitant Lodge Hominid
I have nothing against fooling around with new people, but throwing in either kink or videos when you don't know the guy well is scary stuff. You don't know that he has any idea what he's doing with that belt, that he's not going to hurt you (accidentally or intentionally) or that he's not going to sell the video to some porn site.
Frankly? Any guy who says you need to give yourself to him completely or some such nonsense and actually means it is bad news. You can play around with these ideas about BDSM without actually letting people abuse you or talk you into doing things you're not comfortable with.
Date: January 25th, 2010 6:35 PM Author: deranged red double fault elastic band
it is pretty crazy. even the most "alpha" dudes i know who pump and dump chicks like there's no tomorrow wouldn't have the balls to pull this kinda shit on a first meet.
Date: January 25th, 2010 6:35 PM Author: Excitant Lodge Hominid
I really, really want to think it's flame and it doesn't sound believable...but, there are times when she's posted sort of odd stuff and it's apparently been true. So who knows.
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:22 PM Author: sickened forum
usually i post this type of thing at least somewhat for attention. in this particular instance, i posted about the situation because i wanted input from (mostly) objective third parties.
Date: January 25th, 2010 8:22 PM Author: Federal lemon school cafeteria cuckold
Avatar is the finest cinematic experience in history.
Now tell me more about the cocksucking session. How long did it go on for? Was the gentleman well-endowed? Do you think that porn you had viewed in the past made you more open to the experience? Do you get aroused when you think back on it?
Date: January 26th, 2010 12:55 AM Author: appetizing buff indian lodge
I've noticed particularly that if you start a thread and then respond to yourself in it the probability that no one will respond is magnified; I think it's a form of social darwinism.
Date: January 26th, 2010 3:59 AM Author: Drab Apoplectic Fortuitous Meteor
But seriously, if this is true then you took a serious wrong turn somewhere in life. This would basically be the convergence of self-loathing, attention whoring, and unnecessary risk taking stemming from utter boredom.
Incidentally, I'm absolutely shocked he didn't rape you.
Date: January 26th, 2010 4:23 AM Author: Drab Apoplectic Fortuitous Meteor
Seriously, you did something slutty and dangerous on camera and then ran here and posted about it. What exactly are you working to achieve if not creating an image of you as a complete skank?
By the way, imagine your dad is browsing for pr0n one evening (as he almost certainly does) and comes across the vid that was (supposedly) created? Your friends? Just people who happen to see you on campus? This alone explains why this is almost certainly flame. And if its not, you need serious help.
Date: January 26th, 2010 9:15 AM Author: Pea-brained scarlet trump supporter
oh god gpa doesn't say much about intelligence. she's clearly a smart girl. she just needs to do some work rather than megapoasting and meeting strange guys off the i-nets.
Date: January 27th, 2010 2:44 AM Author: Claret razzmatazz death wish
no idea if this is true or not, but lets just say it is.
You have made a horrific mistake. It's quite clear that you have unbelievably awful judgment.
Personally I think doing this act at all is all kinds of stupid. You're fucking stupid and think ALPHA equals treating a girl like shit. That's pathetic. ALPHA is dominance and confidence, but good ALPHA is still a decent man. Your idea of ALPHA is like a regular 14 year old boy's or a socially paralyzed early twenties man child.
But, that's not the most dangerous part. A better guess would be the physical danger (violent) or the STDs. That's not it either.
It could be letting him take a VIDEO, which given the class act this gentleman seems to be, is a virtual lock on being on the internet sometime soon. This alone is totally inexcusable, a video like that is for someone you trust. If you trust this guy or if you did this without trusting the guy you show horrific judgment.
The real harm, however, is the reckless disregard for your reputation and the opinions of others.
Naturally, you are at Brown, and you are 18 (!) and you have made the conscious and considered decision that you don't care what people think about you (congrats!). You're not going to get caught up in other people's perceptions, you live your life for you!
That's fucking stupid.
The video was one thing but at least there there is a chance it never comes back to haunt you in RL, even if it shows up online your friends may not see it, or there could be some plausible deniability that that teary eyed child isn't you.
BUT NOW YOU POSTED ABOUT IT.
There are people in your real life, at brown, who know who you are. This thing is now in the public. Everyone will know about this. You've tied it to yourself.
Such reckless disregard for your own life is sad. Not everyone who might matter to you will see this act the way you do. Not everyone who may have mattered will give you a chance beyond this terrible first impression.
One of your friends will find out about this. If one, then all. This will haunt you. Your friends from home will find out eventually. How can you not see this happening?
You share so much information on here, have you no sense of decorum whatsoever? People will walk by you on campus and will not see some (in truth still relatively innocent) young girl, but will see whatever they concoct to go along with this story.
I hope you and others learn from this. You shouldn't live your life for others, but you should realize that a lot of happiness in this life is contingent on others opinions of you.
I'll try to sum it up in a simple way.
I'm probably one of the most forgiving guys on this blog. I don't care if a girl has had a lot of sex with a lot of guys. I don't care what race the guys were. I don't care if some of the sex was casual. I don't care if she was into some dominance. I don't care if she isn't meek and quiet (I'd prefer she wasn't). I don't need a girl to not care about her career.
Yet, now, I'd never date you. I couldn't bring you home to my parents, I couldn't look my friends in the eye knowing that they know how you've denigrated yourself. You do outrageous things, with reckless disregard for yourself. How could a guy be with you in polite company? You can't be trusted to be good to yourself much less someone else.
Your sexual preferences are your own, but even in this internet age (even more so), discretion is important. Some things are meant to be private.
I think you seem like a sweet-hearted, well meaning girl. I know I was extremely rough here, but it was warranted. I hope you think through the consequences of your actions in the future. Time heals all wounds. If you cut this shit out, and act like a reasonable human being, people will eventually not care any more. Realize that peoples opinions of you are easily shaped, important, and only very tangentially in your control. If you do things like this you will assure yourself a terrible one.
Date: May 5th, 2011 5:53 PM Author: flirting abode alpha
lol pumo get chokefucked by this
THE INDICTMENT
Teddy H. Ruxpin, at 22:40, 16 April 2011, did contravene subterranean living quarters rule of parental unit engagement section 14 subsection a(11)(c)(vii)-e4(i), to wit Ruxpin emitted an unsanctioned noise after bedtime. In mitigation, Ruxpin argued superior officer R stepped on him causing a reflexive "ahhh, i'm not rubbish" but per Basement Law One (:D is boss, no matter what) mitigation is subject to 4/7 randomly selected socks speaking up your favor. Only one sock, cum-encrusted, voted for mitigation