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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:19 PM Author: Overrated round eye http://nerdyapplebottom.com/2010/11/02/my-son-is-gay/ (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466454) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:29 PM Author: milky fear-inspiring plaza what a dumb cunt mom (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467066) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:32 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range the dumb cunt is Sarah Manley and she is fucking up her son "Boo" by indoctrinating him as a faggot
i wonder if Sarah Manley has her son practice sucking cucumbers yet? |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:33 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy dude, i agree the mom is wack but that's just wrong (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467089) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:42 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range these lib cunts are fucking over ARE COUNTRY. we need to shine a light on these roaches.
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:42 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy agreed but don't punish the son for the mom's idiocy (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467173) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:45 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range OK, kid's name edited out.
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:47 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit Delete her name too dawg. It's her personal blog, she doesn't deserve that either. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467208) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:48 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range but I thought she was PROUD of her actions?? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467222) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:49 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit Abundance of caution, dude. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467232) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:33 PM Author: milky fear-inspiring plaza edit: poster above is right =/ (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467096) |
Date: November 4th, 2010 3:26 PM Author: Hyperventilating garnet volcanic crater indirect expression hahahahahaha (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466494) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:29 PM Author: Overrated round eye this is going viral on facebook now. i think it was kinda wrong of the mom to post his photo in drag. that could come back to haunt him years from now. all because she was a selfish bitch who wanted to feel better about herself and the way she's raising her son (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466516) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:30 PM Author: abnormal cracking office wtf so she thinks she's being progressive or some shit? what a dumb bitch. What about when he's 12 asking to go to bathhouses?
ENJOY AIDS |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:32 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit I hate how nowadays it's these self-absorbed types who are vain enough to want kids, while the selfless, responsible ones worry about whether they can handle the responsibility. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466529) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:20 PM Author: Cyan Slippery Native cr (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468360) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:31 PM Author: Hyperventilating garnet volcanic crater indirect expression (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466525) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:52 PM Author: big twisted den *hides sports illustrated under GQ* (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466721) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:30 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit To be blogging about your son's sexuality when his testicles haven't even descended yet is just horrible. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466519) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:51 PM Author: Tan Space This. I mean the kid is certainly acting quite effeminate, but he's FIVE. When I as five I wanted to be a fucking walrus when I grew up. Little kids are nuts!
What if -- and just roll with me on this for a second -- the kid matures a bit, the hormones start going, and he discovers that he's attracted to girls? What if, in spite of these early indications, he ends up being heterosexual? Well too bad, fruity! Your mom has already laid out an incredibly persuasive case that you're a big fag and publicized it to the world. You can't come back from that. If you end up not naturally enjoying cock, you'd better start acquiring a taste for it because there's no going back now. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:53 PM Author: big twisted den plz explain how sucking cock = gay (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466725) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:54 PM Author: Tan Space fuck you just exposed a glaring flaw in my analysis (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466729) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:23 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy lol (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467003) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:38 PM Author: outnumbered theater stage BOOM LAWYERED (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467711) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:56 PM Author: metal saffron set (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469205) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:54 PM Author: arrogant chrome theater What a shitty mother (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466732) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 3:58 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range time for us to OUT this fucking fag hag (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16466762) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:22 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range GOT HER ( via http://nerdyapplebottom.blogspot.com/2006/08/myspace.html )
Sarah Manley http://www.myspace.com/68758683
University Of Missouri-Columbia Columbia, MO Graduated: N/A Student status: Alumni
1993 to 1995 Esperanza High School Anaheim, CA Graduated: 1993 Student status: Alumni
More pics
http://www.myspace.com/68758683/photos/albums/my-photos/747978
http://www.facebook.com/sjmanley
Sarah Sam Pirkle Manley |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:24 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy o wow (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467014) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:27 PM Author: Thriller coffee pot LOL at that beta ass husband. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467042) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 4:10 AM Author: Vibrant lilac sandwich dilemma he's a cop. more evidence that cops are sadistic beta fags that bully people around in their day jobs because they have no control in their own homes. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16472462) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:30 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range here's a pic of the fag hag with some bitch named Mandaray
http://www.myspace.com/68758683/photos/1583673 |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:31 PM Author: milky fear-inspiring plaza this lady's life will never quite be the same (and not because of me) (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467080) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:32 PM Author: stimulating casino gaping Ironically, the kid's last name is Manley (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467082) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:33 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range Beckett Manley is an ALPHA name...and yet Sarah Manley is brainwashing him into being a fag
such a pity |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:46 PM Author: angry really tough guy That mother is a serious, serious MILF
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:53 PM Author: cheese-eating iridescent telephone husband appears to be an undercover drug detective. wife, who is a college dropout, appears to be sampling seized narcotics, as evidenced by her ultra-pale skin and fucked up eyes. she's petite though, so I would bend her over and break her if given the chance, little fag kid notwithstanding. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467278) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:47 PM Author: emerald excitant hell mexican yeah, i'd pretty much fuck her brains out given the chance (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16474229) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 2:00 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range chicks like that are the reason we invented the phrase "hatefuck" (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16474351) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:27 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen this is what angelina jolie is doing to her birth child. she said her daughter wants to be a boy and wanted her hair cut really short and wanted to be dressed in boy's clothes and called by boy's names. total coincidence that angelina jolie is a bisexual lunatic (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467044) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:01 PM Author: gay low-t skinny woman correct.
this is not uncommon these days. i propose it as a new mental illness or form of child abuse. a variation on the Munchausen by Proxy Syndrome. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:44 PM Author: violent keepsake machete meetinghouse What a delusional cunt. She really didn't know people would make fun of her fag son for corss-dressing? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467184) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:47 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range http://memegenerator.net/beckett/ImageMacro/3477919/Sarah-Manleys-poor-kid-FUCKED-FOR-LIFE (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467211) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:20 PM Author: fantasy-prone fortuitous meteor plz comment on this http://memegenerator.net/Viejos/ImageMacro/3478487/MR-LEE (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467554) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:36 PM Author: splenetic up-to-no-good corner 180 internet pic (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467696) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:39 PM Author: Exhilarant Fluffy Community Account LOL: http://images2.memegenerator.net/The-most-interesting-man/ImageMacro/3478950/i-dont-always-drink-four-loko-but-when-i-do-i-brag-about-all-the-cops-ive-killed.jpg (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467732) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:42 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range lol TY (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467758) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:44 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit Mods, delete the stuff with his/her real names plz. It violates the anti-outting policy. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467185) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:47 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range FUCK YOU, whiteknight...they don't POAST HERE (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467215) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:48 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit I'm not whiteknighting, people are crazy nowadays with lawsuits and internet privacy man. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467227) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:49 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen xoxo's anti outing policy doesn't apply here (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467239) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:50 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy seems like she made herself and her son a limited purpose public figure (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467240) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:51 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range fuck yeah she did!
part of her blog's premise was that there's nothing "shameful" about X-dressing or faggotry.
so no harm done, if her opinion is sincerely offered... |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:51 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit I don't care, it's just stupid to take the risk. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467263) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:53 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range WHAT risk???
she wants to publicize her position with a blog, then let's GIVE HER PUBLICITY! |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:22 PM Author: milky fear-inspiring plaza rofl, (a) you are white knighting, (b) lawsuits and internet privacy? she outted her gay son on the internet, she has no fucking privacy and (c) who is she gunna sue? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467563) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 6:01 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range ESPECIALLY after she finds out that the last bitches to fuck with us (huge tittied heide iravani and lying cunt brittan heller) ended up getting COUNTERSUED for libel slander and abuse of process
http://encyclopediadramatica.com/AutoAdmit#The_LOLSuit
http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Reputation_Defender#.22Lying_Bitch.22_Brittan_Heller_.22Big_Tittied.22_Heide_Iravani |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:52 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen the comments supporting her are ridiculous. YOU'RE THE BEST MOM IN THE WHOLE WORLD YOUR SON IS SO LUCKY |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:55 PM Author: Overrated round eye srsly, i'd be so pissed if my mom posted my baby pics on a popular blog, let alone pics of me cross dressed and announced to the world i'm gay. it's not really her call, yet she has the audacity to proclaim "it's nobody's business". she has no respect for her son or his privacy. she could've at least written the post w/o including the photo and a sensationalistic headline like that. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467310) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:14 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen no shit and even if it was his independent idea to dress up like that for halloween, how does that make him "gay." he's 5. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467480) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:55 PM Author: amethyst regret Mommy blogs are SHIT pure SHIT (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467303) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:58 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range http://boards.4chan.org/b/res/284748068 (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467334) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 4:58 PM Author: amethyst regret yes. clicking a 4chan link at work sounds like a great idea. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467339) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:00 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range LOL
tytyty |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:00 PM Author: Dashing Buck-toothed Nursing Home In 16 years these kids are going to google their names and find detailed, painstaking descriptions of the color and consistency of their pewps when they were 8 months old. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467354) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:03 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range not if we can make a big honking example of this bitch!
go, XO, go! |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:05 PM Author: Irate kitchen jew http://nerdyapplebottom.com/favorites/
discuss |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:11 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range Here are some things that I thoroughly enjoy. They may not be all time favorites, but I enjoyed them enough to put them here. Some may be high brow and others guilty pleasures. I am a conundrum wrapped in an enigma. And I hope to update this regularly.
Books:
To Kill A Mockingbird The Man in the Grey Flannel Suit Waiting for Godot The Alienist Sookie Stackhouse series Inspector Morse series Most anything by Agatha Christie
Movies:
To Kill A Mockingbird The Shawshank Redemption Europa, Europa The Hangover Point Break (yeah, I love it, shut up.)
Music:
Allison Krauss Chris Isaak Afghan Whigs Bon Jovi (there, I said it.) Kid Rock Wilco/Son Volt/Uncle Tupelo Jayhawks [the band, NOT the mascot]
TV:
The Tudors CBS Sunday Morning Lost PBS Mystery! True Blood Modern Family Survivor psych
Activities:
Reading Book Club MOPS Photography Cooking Learning new things Yoga Running (ok, maybe at some point, but not yet) Hanging out with my shorties |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:14 PM Author: Irate kitchen jew ty (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467491) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:15 PM Author: Dashing Buck-toothed Nursing Home Oh, what a scholar! (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467501) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:40 PM Author: bistre hairraiser market 180 (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467743) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:04 PM Author: Tan Space tyft (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468717) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:59 PM Author: metal saffron set 1 fucking 80 (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469238) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:19 PM Author: medicated bateful pit electric furnace (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469433) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 7:10 AM Author: Charismatic Gold National Security Agency (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16472540) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:18 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range she's not kidding about the yoga
Sarah Manley (Sam) Sarah (Sam) Manley teaches our Saturday morning Kid's Yoga class. Sam is a mother of three, ranging in age from two to ten. She has practiced yoga for over a decade. After getting her children involved her practice, she was inspired to become an instructor. She has been teaching children's yoga for two years. She is certified through YogaFit for adults and children and continues her education through workshops with renowned instructors like Max Strom and Kim Schwartz.
"Children and yoga fit together perfectly. It is a great opportunity for kids to get involved with the practice at such an impressionable time in their lives when all of poses come so easy and they have no body issues or stigmas. What better way to start a lifelong journey than when we are fresh and ready? And what a great way to spend some time with your family."
http://www.darlingyoga.com/teachers/#sarah-manley
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:19 PM Author: Dashing Buck-toothed Nursing Home she's got crazy eyes. Also how the hell do you get "Sam" out of "Sarah" (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467542) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:21 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range damned if I know
Sarah Sam Pirkle Manley http://www.facebook.com/sjmanley |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:24 PM Author: Fragrant Impertinent Death Wish Principal's Office I'd tap it. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467584) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:35 PM Author: Dashing Buck-toothed Nursing Home rude (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467687) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:45 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy Imagine how many pedophiles are gonna jack off to this photo tonight (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467787) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:46 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range titcr (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467801) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:45 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467788) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:34 PM Author: Exhilarant Fluffy Community Account Poor kid. This is the plan of the gay agenda for society. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467676) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:54 PM Author: lurid anal narrative *jizzes on TMF when he RUNS into this thread* (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16467878) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 5:58 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range gotta remember to bump it for him
http://f2bbs.com/bbs/show_topic/315426 |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 6:44 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range what a cunt...
http://nerdyapplebottom.com/2010/07/26/slim-may-not-make-it-to-adulthood/
Anyone want a 3 year old boy? Posted: July 26, 2010 by Cop's Wife in slim/squirt, trials & tribulations
Sure, he looks super cute and his laugh melts hearts, but he’s turned into a bit of a… how shall I put it? Asshole.
He is in the thick of potty training and seems to hold it until he can pee all over something I really don’t want him to pee all over.
He screams “Goddamn!” while running amok through stores.
He runs into traffic giggling diabolically.
He gets out of his room a hundred times a night.
He tells the Detective that he doesn’t love him.
He’s added “What the hell?” to his list of things he says that are totally inappropriate.
He hides silently in the middle of clothing racks until we truly begin to thinks he’s been abducted.
He pours water out of the bathtub.
He steps into the toilet.
He dumps every single piece out of every single board game and puzzle that we own. Then stirs.
He unbuckles his car seat while we are driving.
He dumps out a Costco bag of Cheerios all over the house, tiny dust and all.
He tries to flush half a roll of toilet paper and giggles when it overflows.
He tries to clean up a poopy accident that results in just smearing it into several places in the carpet.
He does not follow any instructions. None.
He doesn’t like to get dressed. Or wear anything from the waist down. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 6:47 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother What an awesome mom. How can she be said to be indoctrinating her son with the gay agenda if he chose the costume? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468160) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 6:50 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range yfwgi (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468183) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 6:50 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother dead serious. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468186) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 6:57 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range if you don't get it, no explanation would help you, son. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468224) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 6:58 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother nah this thread just demonstrates the divide between conservative and liberal posters on xo and just how conservative this place has become. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468228) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:06 PM Author: medicated bateful pit electric furnace not really. xoxo has plenty of liberals. this thread just demonstrates that xo avoids faggot self-righteous pc narcissitic liberalism better than most places on the internet (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469298) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:08 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood I support the mom. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468292) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:11 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range stupid cunt (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468301) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:24 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood Whatever. The only questionable part is that she posted about it, but even for that, it's not like she printed his name or anything. I have no problem with her letting him dress up as a girl for Halloween. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468387) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:25 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range yeah, like the entire neighborhood doesn't know Sarah Manley's posting about Beckett. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468397) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:29 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood I didn't see either of their names in that post. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468417) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:31 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range I guess you never heard of google...sux to be you (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468430) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:35 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood Google, are you serious? If you're sleuthing around the internet trying to find identifying information about a mom and her kid and then posting those on an online message board as a pumo... well, I don't know what to tell you. Sounds like you're the one with problems. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468450) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:36 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range um, their names are ON HER BLOG you stupid cunt.
sorry about your tiny pink reading skillz |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:36 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood Um, you're the one who brought up Google in the first place. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468474) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:39 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range Jesus, you're insufferable. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468497) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:43 PM Author: Bat shit crazy sienna church building dog poop I have decided to side with Rina. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468535) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:50 PM Author: odious haunted graveyard sanctuary me too (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468613) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:45 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy cr. just ignore that minx (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468567) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:50 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range ty. amazing how so many libfucks don't get how they're killing the balls of this society.
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:51 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy agreed. our country is going down the drain. all the comments praising her are disgusting. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468624) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:26 PM Author: Cyan Slippery Native Kind of thoughtless posting pics of her kid in an embarrassing outfit on the internet just to justify or rationalize being unwilling to say no to socially inappropriate behavior.
The worst part is, the kid seemed genuinely distressed at the thought of wearing the dress at school. So why did she still insist that he do it? |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:32 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood He doesn't look embarrassed in that pic to me. He looks happy. And adorable. Lots of parents put happy and adorable pics of their kid online.
If he really didn't want to wear it, then you're right, she shouldn't have forced him. But I didn't read it like that. It sounded to me like he wanted to be reassured that the idea (that he came up with) was acceptable. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:33 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range wait a few years, then little Beckett will rue the day he was born to a dumbfuck whore mother...
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:02 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen Whatever if the kid wants whatever as a Halloween costume. How does it follow that he's HOMOSEXUAL though? That's a fucked up thing to post about a 5 year-old. You don't tell the whole world that your kindergartener is "gay." (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468709) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:05 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother "My son is gay. Or he’s not. I don’t care."
Explain your interpretation. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:06 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range She put "my son is gay" in the blog title, dumbfuck.
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:08 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother You can't seriously be contending that the title is not part of the paragraph that follows. The title is for shock value, to grab attention, whatever. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468739) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:09 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range Way to go, bitch abusing her child for "shock value" (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468751) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:10 PM Author: Tan Space "The title is for shock value, to grab attention, whatever."
Which would be fine, if this was an issue of the fucking national enquirer as opposed to something you're publishing on the internet about your own five-year old kid. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:11 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen yeah and its gross (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468762) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:09 PM Author: medicated bateful pit electric furnace wow, u are a stupid piece of shit. maybe next time the mom should just post a vid of herself assfucking her son with a strap on for shock value (to grab attention) and then continue on with her self-centered boomer shitblog post (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469323) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 3:16 AM Author: Erotic stage marketing idea 190 (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16472400) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:52 PM Author: Exhilarant Fluffy Community Account !!! (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16474282) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:59 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range awesome (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16474348) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:09 PM Author: Tan Space Well, let's see. I click on a link that includes the text "/my-son-is-gay/". "MY SON IS GAY," the headline proclaims in big, bold, red letters. I'm confronted by a picture of the kid in his costume.
(Or he's not), whispers the first line of body text.
Even if she technically qualified her statement, this is a pretty fucked up thing to do. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 3:33 AM Author: Cerebral Sadistic Giraffe Pervert Does she post the child's name anywhere on the blog? My concern is that you could google the child's name at some point in the future and this article would come up.
I'm pro-gay and my knee-jerk reaction to this article was very pro-kid and pro-mom, but I would hate to see the kid linked to this article and tormented by the bad people in this world.
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:05 PM Author: Tan Space Precisely. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468728) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:07 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood She says "or he's not." And that either way it doesn't matter. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468735) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:07 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range If it "didn't matter," she wouldn't have BLOGGED it, moron.
For myself, I don't blog that "It's raining or it's not"
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:08 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother look in the mirror. ask yourself, am I really this stupid? do I really not comprehend when someone is blogging to make a social point?
It can clearly not matter to her whether her son is gay while it does matter to her that it matters to others that her son wears that costume. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:10 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range So she KNOWS she's exploiting her 5 year old.
Thanks for granting the point. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:19 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother was this ever a contested point?
the question is whether the exploitation was inappropriate. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:24 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range OK, now I KNOW you're flame.
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:25 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother says the pumo (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468861) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:10 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood Her point is that it shouldn't matter. It matters to others, and she's railing against them. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468760) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:14 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range And she fucked over her kid to make that point. Ya-hoo, well done. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468774) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:15 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood Explain how her kid is fucked over. I'm really trying to understand your reasoning. Are you mad about the event or that she posted about it? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468783) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:16 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen Yes, that's her "point" and she's using her kid to make it. She doesn't think it should matter that his costume is "cross gender." Regardless of what actually happened, even the way SHE tells it is fucked up. She clearly got him all excited about this costume, then he didn't even want to wear it and she pressured him into it and escorted him into his school, all to make her little point. Look at what she writes: Then as we got closer to the actual day, he stared to hem and haw about it. After some discussion it comes out that he is afraid people will laugh at him. I pointed out that some people will because it is a cute and clever costume. He insists their laughter would be of the ‘making fun’ kind. I blow it off. Seriously, who would make fun of a child in costume?
And then the big day arrives. We get dressed up. We drop Squirt at his preschool and head over to his. Boo doesn’t want to get out of the car. He’s afraid of what people will say and do to him. I convince him to go inside. He halts at the door. He’s visibly nervous. I chalk it up to him being a bit of a worrier in general. Seriously, WHO WOULD MAKE FUN OF A CHILD IN A COSTUME ON HALLOWEEN? So he walks in. And there were several friends of mine that knew what he was wearing that smiled and waved and gave him high-fives. We walk down the hall to where his classroom is.
And that’s where things went wrong. Two mothers went wide-eyed and made faces as if they smelled decomp. And I realize that my son is seeing the same thing I am. So I say, “Doesn’t he look great?”
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:18 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood I read the same passage differently from you. To me, it sounded like it was HIS idea and that HE was excited about it. As the day neared, he had second thoughts because he wasn't sure about the propriety of dressing as a girl. His mother (rightly) assured him that it was fine if that's what he wanted to be. That's how I read it. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468801) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:22 PM Author: Peach bisexual mother cr (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468832) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:24 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range I suppose the blog calling little Beckett a knobgobbler was his idea too? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468850) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:27 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen Sounds to me like the kid had more sense than she did and she mothered him into doing what she wanted him to do. Then she goes on to blog about how she doesn't care if her son is "gay" even though no one said anything about that about that but her. Some mothers said it probably wasn't a good idea to have him dressed up like a girl, especially since he was "visibly nervous." Even if it was his idea and he REALLY wanted to do it (doesn't sound like that's what happened, even if you take the bitch's words at face value, which you shouldn't), this is how it sounds to me: Kid: I want to be daphne from scooby doo. Mom: HEY EVERYONE MY SON IS GAY. or not. Even if he is gay, that's okay. It's nobody's business if my five year-old is gay. wtf? |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:32 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood It sounded to me like the mothers were more vehemently against the idea of him dressing up as a girl, saying that she should have actively talked him out of it or that next year she should "forbid" it. Anyway, like I said above, posting about it might have been questionable, but I fully support her mothering and telling him it's ok to be a girl for Halloween. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468943) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:36 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen lol HE tried to talk HER out of it. its perfectly credited to take into account things like the desire not be socially ostracized and weigh it against his desire to wear a dress to school. he's SUPPOSED to be learning shit like that. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468987) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:40 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood But it doesn't sound like HE was traumatized or that HE was ostracized. It sounded like his friends were greeting him and high fiving him and he was perfectly happy. It's the MOTHERS who were upset. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469019) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:51 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen she said several of HER friends high-fived him - not his friends. things have not changed that much since we went to school. of course he looked like a little fairy and everyone thought it was weird and gay. even the 5 year-old anticipated that. you give this nutjob's version of the story too much credit. of course she isn't going to post things that contradict her telling of this. she's RIGHT! she's only posting about other moms because on top of being self-righteous, she's catty as fuck. supermom probably linked them to her blog if they weren't aware of it already. and again, where the fuck does "gay" come from but her? "If you think that me allowing my son to be a female character for Halloween is somehow going to ‘make’ him gay then you are an idiot. Firstly, what a ridiculous concept. Secondly, if my son is gay, OK. I will love him no less." huh? the other mothers never implied anything like that. she clearly manipulated her kid and walked in there anticipating her chance to express TOTAL SURPRISE and indignation at other people's predictable reactions. this didn't have anything to do with her kid, he didn't even want to do it. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:56 PM Author: Aromatic cobalt background story mood It comes from people like in this very thread who say this is an instance of "getting soft on fagottry" or that "of course ... everyone thought it was weird and gay."
We'll just have to agree to disagree, I guess. I would have done the same thing as a mother, to encourage him to be whatever the hell he wanted. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:01 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit That sounds like the nice thing to think, which is why you're thinking it. But the kid's just not going to see it that way when he's grown up. He's not going to appreciate her open-mindedness. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469253) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:01 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen you don't take into account the fact that he weighed the social consequences against his relatively weak and unimportant desire to dress up like a girl. she's not telling him not to follow his passion of playing the piano because its effeminate or something (and this had NOTHING to do with him being "gay"). he changed his mind, and she should have let him do that if what she really cared about was letting him develop into his own person with his own values. this wasn't a case of that to begin with and if it had been, she still did the wrong thing. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469254) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:12 PM Author: Buff abode don't be a dimwit.
the mother obviously is baiting people, hoping they will make big deal about her GAY SON so she can be a martyr and get attention.
she probably hopes the school disciplines him or sends him home because of his provocative costume, or else that some other students beat him up, so she can get on the local news, and then maybe on Oprah!
oh, what a courageous and freethinking MOMMY! she's so bighearted to love her GAY (Or not Gay) SON JUST THE WAY HE IS! Hurrah for her!! Hurrah for her GAY (Or not Gay) SON! |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:30 PM Author: lurid anal narrative Oh rina. There are sharks out here. She was factually wrong in assuring her son that it was "all right" to dress as a girl. She's being a major ass trying to promote a progressive or tolerant agenda--esp. By blowing her sons pic up on the internet. I could deal with a gay son but not a self-aggrandizing shrew of a baby momma. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:35 PM Author: purple locale liquid oxygen tcr if the kid was old enough to have developed a sexual preference and she was trying to defend his right to be a homosexual, that's one thing. sounds more like he (might have) wanted to dress up like a girl for halloween, then took into account things like other people making fun of him, etc., and changed his mind. but she wouldn't let him, drove him to school while he's sick with worry, dragged him out of the car and paraded him around in front of everyone he knows irl, then posted a picture of him on the internet with huge words over his face that say MY SON IS GAY. She only sort of "sounds" right, but she isn't. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:38 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range she indeed doesn't seem right either.
dropped out of college. now a yoga instructor
http://www.darlingyoga.com/teachers/#sarah-manley
she seems to have that new agey look about her... |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:32 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit He's going to have lifelong trauma from the memory of being paraded around in a skirt in front of all his classmates. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468937) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:39 PM Author: fuchsia marvelous institution cumskin self-absorbed cunt (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468495) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:50 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy cr.i cant believe all the comments commending her. our country really is going down the drain (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468614) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:54 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range someday, when future Chinese historians chronicle how the USA fucked itself, our going soft on faggotry will rank near the top. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468650) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:55 PM Author: Supple Drab Shrine Puppy my concern is we're going so far to the left that there's gonna be a backlash and we'll end up with a super conservative or fascist society (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468658) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:57 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range Could happen, just like Danton led to Napoleon.
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Date: November 4th, 2010 7:59 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range her hyperventilating twitter says it all
ME ME ME ME ME!!! |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:16 PM Author: Tan Space I want to kick this woman right in her faggot face. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468786) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:25 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range Wait for the googlebomb to hit. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468862) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:20 PM Author: lurid anal narrative Its not objectively bad but she should know better than to do that in are country, much less post to internet.
I would divorce. Smacks of john stuart mill's father fucking up his childhood just to promote bentham ism. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:26 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range Reminiscent, too, of Lena Chen's attention whoring, now that you mention it. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468878) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:30 PM Author: geriatric orchestra pit She's clearly uncomfortable living around religious people in Kansas and wants to shock them. I think that's the subtext. She's just chosen a terrible, demeaning way to do it.
This kid could become a serial killer because of the lifelong shame he will likely feel from this. Moms don't realize that their sons don't find the same things cute and adorable that they do.
*Sigh* I guess in this modern age all we can do is focus on ourselves and ignore the insanity and tragedy around us. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:33 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range From her twitter bio:
"I read, teach yoga, mother 3 shorties, am married to a cop, have a bleeding heart, and live in the Bible Belt. Send help."
definitely wishes she weren't in Missouri. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:41 PM Author: Irate kitchen jew it must be hard being so much smarter than everyone around her!!! i feel sorry for her (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469025) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:36 PM Author: lurid anal narrative Since its okay (and even progressive) to dress as a girl when your not, next halloween my 5 year-old is going in black face. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16468979) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:41 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range tyft (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469029) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:03 PM Author: Hyperventilating garnet volcanic crater indirect expression (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469276) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:51 PM Author: metal saffron set I don't support any mom in the article. I do, however, support the son.
There are two places, I think, where this goes awry:
(1) Mom's naivete. Look, she sends her little boy to a Christian preschool. He would have had problems dressing up like a girl in a non-denominational, secular, progressive preschool. That she could possibly be so naive to believe that he would encounter no difficulties being dressed as a girl is absurd. Absolutely absurd.
I find that liberal women will occasionally use this kind of faux-innocent justification when dealing with the hard realities of the world. It is "victim blaming," for example, when one observes that a woman should not walk through certain neighborhoods alone at night. Now, of course it is victim-blaming to observe this ex post, as though it justifies what happens. A woman who chooses to do x, y, or z thing, which is known to increase the likelihood of rape, still cannot rightly be blamed for being raped. Rape is a volitional act by an aggressor.
Nevertheless, to ignore, in the spirit of liberal equanimity, the obvious when it comes to taking measures to prevent rape? Like, not getting black-out drunk with strangers, or not dressing provocatively in shady areas, or whatever? Well, you aren't dealing with the world as it is. You are dealing with the world as you think it, by rights, should be.
That's fine when you want to internalize the cost of that. Go get raped on your own time. But don't take it out on those in your care.
She knew, or should have known, that her son would have been ridiculed. And by pretending that she didn't, she wasn't forced to make a hard choice: expose her child to ridicule, or permit him to express himself. She wanted it all for her little boy. Now, perhaps she can't be blamed for wanting that, but being a parent isn't just about loving your children. It's about knowing better than them, too.
(2) "Mine is not to dictate what is ‘normal’ and what is not, but to help him become a good person."
No, your job is actually both, mom. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:55 PM Author: lurid anal narrative Mfcr. Hey if heteronormativity doesn't work out wanna go adopt some moon faced orphanettes together (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469194) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 8:58 PM Author: metal saffron set lol do I give off a vibe that heteronormativity is working out for me? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469218) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:11 PM Author: wonderful faggotry school cafeteria Well said. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469338) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:18 PM Author: metal saffron set ty (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469419) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:02 PM Author: razzmatazz windowlicker ITT: One psycho pumo argues angrily with reasonable posters (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16469266) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 4:01 AM Author: brilliant appetizing step-uncle's house stfu pumo. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16472456) |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 9:02 PM Author: metal saffron set WAIT.
SHE LIVES IN (big, midwestern town)?!
Okay. A fortiori, she knew. It's just so tacky to pretend otherwise. Just own up to it, lady. You used your own son as a teachable moment. Pretty despicable. |
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Date: November 4th, 2010 10:34 PM Author: metal saffron set (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16470071) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 3:08 AM Author: Cerebral Sadistic Giraffe Pervert The main issue I have with the article is the mother publicizing a potentially embarrassing Halloween costume. She doesn't say whether or not her kid got teased by other kids at school.
There are competing values here. What is more important? Self-expression in face of potential ridicule, or conformity at the expense of denial of your natural impulses. I'm not saying that one is more important than the other because there are times when it's more beneficial to conform (such as in a conservative workplace), but it's also dangerous to dissuade a young child away from expressing a certain identity solely because some people might find that identity weird or off-putting.
That's teaching the child that non-mainstream views, behaviors or opinions should be subjugated in the face of a strong, contrary mainstream view, and that non-mainstream views essentially have less value. I'm not sure I want to raise my kids with that.
It's a fucking Halloween costume. If I had a dollar for every time I saw a guy dress up as a chick for a costume party I could buy everyone in this thread a beer.
I don't like the idea of her using her son to create a teachable moment to blog about on the interwebs, but we don't know how things went down from the son's perspective, or how this once Halloween will affect his development. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 10:02 AM Author: honey-headed 180 range tl;dr
basically, she's an attention whore
http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Attention_Whore
http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Sarah_Manley |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 5:07 AM Author: Amber hideous dingle berry So kids have dumb ideas all the time. That's what kids do. What parents are supposed to do is teach them why those ideas are dumb. Instead of doing that, she a) encouraged him to follow through with his dumb idea, and b) posted on the internet complete with photos of her young son following through with aforementioned dumb idea. Then, she proceeds to be outraged when she is called out on being stupid. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16472475) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 10:59 AM Author: Tan Space Yes. And the kid only had the "dumb idea" for a brief while. He changed his mind about dressing up in the costume (kids, impulsive as they are, change their minds about shit all the time) but his mom wouldn't let him.
To me, this is roughly analogous to if the kid said "I want to be a spaceman when I grow up!" The mom then carves that statement in stone, buys him astronaut sheets, gives him picture books about space, and loudly proclaims "MY SON WILL WALK ON MARS."
Two weeks later, the kid decides he wants to be a police man instead, but the mom says "SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU'RE GOING TO BE AN ASTRONAUT AND I DON'T CARE WHAT ANYBODY SAYS." |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:18 AM Author: honey-headed 180 range Funny you mention that.
Apparently, the kid's first word was "cop"
http://www.myspace.com/68758683/photos/1555165
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Date: November 5th, 2010 10:07 AM Author: Floppy Point Stain Those of you talking about the kids free will, did you read the blog? The kid thought better of it, realized it was ridiculous and tried to back out. The mother insisted he go through with it and then publicized it. The mother waited for an opportunity to seize on how progressive she was and used her son to show people how forward thinking she is. This is disgusting. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16472786) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 10:10 AM Author: multi-colored locus mental disorder from teh blog
"Then as we got closer to the actual day, he stared to hem and haw about it. After some discussion it comes out that he is afraid people will laugh at him. I pointed out that some people will because it is a cute and clever costume. He insists their laughter would be of the ‘making fun’ kind. I blow it off."
"Boo doesn’t want to get out of the car. He’s afraid of what people will say and do to him. I convince him to go inside. He halts at the door. He’s visibly nervous. I chalk it up to him being a bit of a worrier in general."
what a fucking abusive cunt
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Date: November 5th, 2010 10:14 AM Author: Floppy Point Stain Yeah the kid was clearly embarrassed and his mother forced him to go through w/ something embarrassing that could have been easily avoided. He wasn't ready for this and she forced it on him. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16472807) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:37 AM Author: boyish theatre I was like, BFD until I read this. This lady's lucky she's not my wife. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16473289) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:00 AM Author: Twinkling pungent nowag What an awful self-absorbed amazingly stupid bad mother she is. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16473055) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:01 AM Author: honey-headed 180 range http://twitter.com/nerdyapple/status/547742317289472
"My famous little Boo is still sick. This fever is annoying."
Odds that "little Boo" is faking so he can skip school and avoid the humiliation that cunt mama put him thru? |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:14 AM Author: medicated bateful pit electric furnace (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16473132) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:15 AM Author: metal saffron set I love how this independent woman creates her entire online persona in terms of her relation to her husband. She seems confused, to her son's detriment. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16473145) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:19 AM Author: honey-headed 180 range Is there such a disease as "attention whoring by proxy"? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16473167) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:50 AM Author: cheese-eating iridescent telephone http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/bestoftv/2010/11/05/exp.am.intv.blog.cnn?hpt=C2 (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16473359) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 11:52 AM Author: honey-headed 180 range LOL...even THEY think the bitch is fucknuts for forcing the kid to dress like that...
and that she's a total cunt for "outing" him
LOL @ the U Missouri dropout trying to say "my son is gay" was a pun...does she think we're too stupid not to realize she's a moron?? |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 12:24 PM Author: Trip rusted site "So truly I was doing a bit of a pun"
Right, because "happy" is still what people think when you write "my son is gay"
This poor kid is going to be haunted by this the rest of his life. You almost have to HOPE he's gay at this point because the fallout will be so much worse for him if he's not. She clearly has no regrets. She could have at least taken the picture down once it started going viral but she didn't. Not only is it there, but it's her facebook pic as well.
Part of me also wonders if forcing him to wear the costume was not only for an agenda, but also "I paid good money for this costume because you insisted, so I'll be damned if you're not going to wear it." Nevermind that he had legitimate concerns about its reception. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:20 PM Author: rambunctious disturbing state brethren Would the mother still be accused of exploiting her child had she not blogged about it? When does encouraging a child to have the courage to be himself end, and exploitation to create a teachable moment begin?
If the child was an awkward preteen girl who wanted to read fat, thick dorky fantasy novels in studyhall when all of the rest of the girls were reading Sweet Valley High, would we be criticizing her mother for encouraging her to read what she wanted to read even if the kid had fears of being labeled a nerd?
Posting a photo of the child was in poor taste, but you can't find out these people's names unless you really dig (which some people will do).
If it were me, I'd encourage the child to wear the costume and not care about the taunts from petty people who he doesn't need as friends, but I'd refrain from blogging about it and if he ended up not wanting to wear the costume even after a few motherly pep-talks, I'd respect that. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:40 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range tl;dr
"WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LIIIIIIIIIIINE???"
fixed |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:50 PM Author: rambunctious disturbing state brethren Haha true true. I'm guilty of tl; dr posts aplenty so you got me there : )
I'm torn. I don't like the idea of teaching a child that giving into bullies is more important than self-expression (since that validates the opinions of the bullies/intolerant types), but lying to the child and telling him that he won't be laughed at for dressing up as a girl is irresponsible.
I admire what the mother was trying to do but it could have been done in a more sensitive way. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:42 PM Author: metal saffron set But the kind wanted to back out. He didn't want to do it. Do you still force him to go to his Christian preschool dressed as a girl? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16474189) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:59 PM Author: rambunctious disturbing state brethren If the mother did force him, that would be wrong. I can't tell if the mother forced him, or simply convinced him to be brave and tune out any teasing. We don't know what the mother said to convince the boy to wear the costume.
I would like to hear more about the boy's day from the boy's perspective, and whether he had fun or got teased. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 2:02 PM Author: provocative tanning salon internal respiration in other words, you'd like to exploit the child further.
LEAVE THE DEFENSELESS KID ALONE LADIES |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 2:04 PM Author: rambunctious disturbing state brethren No, I'd let my kid wear whatever the hell he wants to wear. If he got second thoughts about wearing what he originally really wanted to wear because he thought he'd be made fun of for it I'd tell him that it's OK if he doesn't wear it, but it's not OK for people to bully him and he shouldn't let other peoples' cruelty and intolerance spoil his holiday.
Parents should not be forcing their kids to put themselves in situations that they may not be ready for, or may be too fragile to cope with, but parents also shouldn't be reinforcing the ideas behind the bullies. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:46 PM Author: provocative tanning salon internal respiration "Posting a photo of the child was in poor taste, but you can't find out these people's names unless you really dig (which some people will do)."
A simple google search of "kid dressed as daphne", which I doubt most people would label "digging" gets the real names in every single one of the first page hits.
This kid will be taunted with this picture for the rest of his life.
CNN can't say "It will get better! Stop the bullying!" for the whole last month and then stand and applaud when kids are fucking set up for it. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 1:53 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range IIRC, CNN actually prodded Manley about her faux "outting" her 5-year-old... (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16474283) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 2:01 PM Author: provocative tanning salon internal respiration one expert there did. but I'm sure Anderson Cooper was thrilled by it all.
even giving her attention, which is CLEARLY all she wants, was a ridiculous move when they literally have been pounding the drum for weeks about leaving gays alone and not bullying them. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 2:02 PM Author: rambunctious disturbing state brethren Oh, I only read the blog post, not all of the follow-up articles on the blog. I didn't know that it got CNN coverage and I definitely didn't investigate close enough to find out the names of the parties. A few of my Facebook friends linked to the blog and were giving it kudos so I checked it out.
Don't know how appropriate it was for the other news sources to have mentioned the child's name, and I don't know if this mother could have foreseen that her blog post would go viral. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 2:50 PM Author: Jet-lagged Selfie This mom should lose her kid. This is seriously fucked up, and could damage the kid psychologically later in life.
Selfish BITCH. |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 3:00 PM Author: Jet-lagged Selfie This is also just more proof that I must marry a conservative. (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#16474832) |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 5:47 PM Author: slimy bearded famous landscape painting associate hmm...looks like the backlash is starting:
# Just now get to watch the actual CNN segment from this morning. I do want to be clear that I haven't 'outed' my son. That is not the mssg. 22 minutes ago via web
# The message is unconditional love and tolerance. That is the point I am making. 21 minutes ago via web
Also, for those that are worried about his image, is it because of what he's wearing? Are those same people worried about child models? 10 minutes ago via web
[NICE TU QUOQUE]
@ParsingNonsense I guess I can't force everyone to read the whole post, not just the first line. :( less than 20 seconds ago via web in reply to ParsingNonsense |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 5:50 PM Author: medicated bateful pit electric furnace "That is not the mssg."
rofl |
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Date: November 5th, 2010 5:52 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range "# The message is unconditional love and tolerance. That is the point I am making."
you could have sent that 'message' without making your kid a fucking prop, dumbcunt |
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Date: November 6th, 2010 12:55 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range speaking of backlash
http://blogs.forbes.com/carolinehoward/2010/11/05/my-son-is-gay-is-a-lesson-in-bad-mommy-blogging/
‘My Son Is Gay’ Is A Lesson In Bad Mommy Blogging Nov. 5 2010 - 2:56 pm | 2,908 views | 1 recommendation | 16 comments By CAROLINE HOWARD The B-52s
Image by aresauburn™ via Flickr
Mommy blogger Nerdy Apple Bottom (aka Sarah Manley) is up on her hobby horse with a recent post titled, “My son is gay.” It’s the story of how her 5-year-old boy wanted to be Daphne from Scooby Doo for Halloween, then didn’t, was convinced by mom it really was a good choice and then…the fallout.
After the sensational headline, “My son is gay,” Sarah Manley goes on to say:
Or he’s not. I don’t care. He is still my son. And he is 5. And I am his mother. And if you have a problem with anything mentioned above, I don’t want to know you.
Then there’s the photo. He might be dressed as Daphne but in truth he looks more like some kind of sweet homage to the B52’s Kate Pierson dressed in hot pink and purple. In the picture, he’s perched on a big pumpkin while clutching a little purple zebra-striped purse. His smile is killer.
Mom must’ve been proud, but you can see why little Boo was somewhat hesitant about the costume. “As we got closer to the actual day, he started to hem and haw about it. After some discussion it comes out that he is afraid people will laugh at him.”
It’s a distinct possibility. But for Sarah Manley, the Daphne costume had transformed from playful to political. This might be a teachable moment for her pre-K son, whom she describes as “a worrier in general,” about the triumphs of being unconventional. It might expose him to ridicule. She is torn: “It also was heartbreaking to me that my sweet, kind-hearted five year old was right to be worried.”
But she shakes it off. “Who would make fun of a child [boy] in [a girl] costume?” Turns out a lot of people–a lot of mean mommies at her kid’s daycare. And that is a shame, particularly when you consider that little Sally or Shiloh can choose to be a cowboy or Batman without tsk-tsks and accusations of gender-bending.
Her anger at the mean mommies is valid. But she’s taken to the blogosphere with her rants (people can be mean, even to children! traditional gender distinctions aren’t fair!) at the expense of her “worrier” son’s privacy, forever and ever. Maybe he won’t mind. Maybe he will.
Here’s my point: He can wear anything he likes. And while Nerdy Apple is right in telling those mean mommies with their stares and comments that “it is none of your damn business” what her son puts on, it’s even more true that she has no damn business putting up that headline with that photo of her son on the Internet.
I wish saying, “My son is gay,” was as neutral as, “He’s a people person.” It’s not. The memory of bullying victim Tyler Clementi is still too raw. Let’s get dystopian for a moment: This post could potentially cost Boo a future visa to Iran or Uganda–or a spot in the U.S. military. Homosexuality is social and political kindling in many corners.
Now let’s dial it back: He might straight up be embarrassed. And should “out and proud” be his future–which may or may not be the case, as many little boys and girls play with gender stereotypes–it ought to be on his own terms and in his own time. I appreciate Nerdy Apple’s political point of view, but she’s gone two steps too far in oversharing by however-ironically “outing” her kid.
Here’s what some of the ForbesWoman community from Facebook had to say:
It seems like Sarah Manley might be causing her 5 y.o. more grief than help by airing his private struggles. Most of her points are well taken, & bullying of any sort is awful. I think she would help her son more by taking a less defensive approach and by not airing his life for the world to see. — Hanorah Anderson
This could cause a relationship issues for a lot of kids/parents some day when the child is older. — Duong Sheahan
That is so wrong! Any body can see that… what kind of mother is she? — Lorelei Evans
This is THE central problem to all mommy blogging. Children are not characters in a blog’s storyline. They are real people, with feelings–and a long memory. |
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Date: November 6th, 2010 12:51 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range that whore just wont STFU will she?
@Bookgirl96 - Just did a phone interview with @todayshow, and will be on Monday. Thank you. I will try not to embarrass either of us. |
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Date: November 9th, 2010 2:52 PM Author: honey-headed 180 range # I am finally able to catch my breath for a moment. I think. about 2 hours ago via web
# And I think I lost my favorite pair of cheap sunglasses in NYC. 5 minutes ago via web
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Date: January 17th, 2011 1:45 PM Author: Cordovan passionate multi-billionaire private investor http://encyclopediadramatica.es/Sarah_Manley
and now we have this cunt Amy Kieran, announcing her son Brody Kieran as a FAGGOT
When Your 7-Year-Old Son Announces, 'I'm Gay' by Amy Kieran (St. Louis)
lulz here: Liberal nutjob inculcate small child with liberal crap (HuffPo) Liberal nutjob inculcate small child with liberal crap (HuffPo) http://encyclopediadramatica.es/Sarah_Manley
Sarah Manley who outed her 5 year old Beckett Manley asFAGGOT (making him prime pedobait) nao blogging at NerdyApple.com NerdyApple "Nerdy Apple"
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Date: January 17th, 2011 1:56 PM Author: Exhilarant Fluffy Community Account Any updates on the harassment this woman deservedly experienced after this? (https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1470530&forum_id=2#17074872) |