Date: October 21st, 2015 12:45 PM Author: Arousing yellow selfie
I had sex with a few but there were certainly opportunities for more that I passed up either because I did not want to lead the girl on or deemed her below my social caste and would have been embarrassed if it became public.
In retrospect I should not have cared about anyone's feelings or my image as much. Maximizing the number of teenage girls a man has sex with is the most important thing in life.
Date: October 21st, 2015 12:50 PM Author: cowardly chad shrine
O-line and D-line. I was 5'11" and 170-180 at the time.
I was a good player technically and I could beat a lot of players that were bigger than me in 1-on-1s because I was just athletic and had great technique.
Anyway I ended up starting on d-line Senior year which wasn't bad.
Date: October 21st, 2015 12:51 PM Author: Arousing yellow selfie
When I think of confidence I don't necessarily think of the kids with strong personalities or who were socially popular.
I think more about the ones who knew themselves well at an early age and were not afraid to try whatever it is that they wanted to do without fear of failure or ridicule.
Date: October 21st, 2015 1:17 PM Author: Lavender psychic
I met a girl recently who said she just wants a simple life, didn't care for a nice lifestyle, just a job to pay the bills and time to spend with her love ones. She's a senior in college. Blew my mind.
Date: October 21st, 2015 1:42 PM Author: avocado people who are hurt
Study finance. Don't rely on your high school friends. Take the SAT more than once. Join clubs in college. Oh and that cute quiet girl in speech and debate is flirting with you, you god damn aspie retard.
Date: October 21st, 2015 1:54 PM Author: Lavender psychic
What was your rationale for choosing Yale over full ride Chicago? Feel like Chicago is one of those few elite school that doesn't get the recognition from proles.
Date: October 21st, 2015 1:52 PM Author: Drab degenerate range
Work harder, get more involved. This is a very special place, there's so much to learn and do, and you'll never return to a community where everyone respects you and you respect everybody. Also, drop by the auditorium and ask a nice pretty theater girl out.
Date: October 21st, 2015 2:08 PM Author: apoplectic amethyst property tank
The 90s were awesome, and stuff is about to get way shittier in most respects--culturally, economically, you name it. It's all down hill for the next decade plus. But stop thinking that there's something noble about being beta or socially awkward or pretending you're too cool for shit you want to do. That's the stupidest thing about the 90s. Just be a good, authentic person and you'll be happier and probably fuck a lot more girls. Also ten years from now that girl you picture every night when you jerk off admits to you and several other people that she totally wants to fuck you. Right now. This second. She literally tells a trusted source that she would get wet when you talked to her. You're not imagining it. So go take care of that. Right now. Don't overanalyze it or worry about doing anything to prepare or what happens afterward.
Also, you're making the exact right decision for undergrad, but for fucksake DO. NOT. GO. TO. LAW. SCHOOL. Instead, try not giving up on your dreams when you're 22.
Date: October 21st, 2015 3:15 PM Author: apoplectic amethyst property tank
This too. See e.g. Ben Stiller's character in Reality Bites v. Ethan Hawke who is slaying endless amounts of poon by being ironically detached and poor. The entire premise of Reality Bites is laughable today.
Date: October 21st, 2015 3:14 PM Author: apoplectic amethyst property tank
It wasn't that it was noble to be beta, it's that it was more socially acceptable to rationalize betaness as consequence of your 90s sense of ironic detachment/sarcasm and the like. The best example of a parody of this 90s mentality is the Homerpalooza Simpsons episode, when the two grunge teens see Homer coming on stage and the one says "Oh that cannonball guy. He's cool." The other says "Are you being sarcastic?" And the first says "I don't even know anymore."
There was also a fair bit of talk about 90s being the time "when geeks became cool" supposedly, which was partly a reaction to the dawning of the PC and internet age. But it fit with the general 90s notion of valorizing iconoclasts/skeptics/those who reflexively rejected "conformity" and anything that was too "mainstream" (which was itself a transparent reaction to 80s notions of coolness). But this all led to someone as absurdly aspie as Bill Gates being super famous and spending a lot of time on TV. So there were different ways to get the wrong message that being nice meant you were trying too hard/weren't smart.
Date: October 21st, 2015 3:18 PM Author: infuriating marketing idea
I was really afraid of breaking girl's hearts so I didn't sleep with as many women as there were opportunities for. I felt bad in my mind if I knew I didn't deeply like someone romantically, and foresaw hurting them, so I often would break it off.
Also image is everything. People are dumb and appearances beat reality in most cases. I would tell my younger self to dress/act like a rebel/badass and not worry about actually being one. I was preoccupied with integrity, which it turns out, no one gives a fuck about.
Also love is flame. Women aren't capable of it.
Oh also my high school gf would do shit that was overly dramatic to get attention and I'd ignore her and she'd get upset. I would tell my teenage self to play along with her bullshit and get more pussy than I did because I didn't give a fuck about her whining when all she really wanted was for me to take her bullshit seriously. I didn't put 2 and 2 together.
Date: October 21st, 2015 3:26 PM Author: Confused carnelian messiness
Do not make any substantial effort to "fit in" with who you perceive to be the popular group. Especially do not try to do so by mimicking the negative aspects of their behavior which seem cool at the time, like making fun of other kids or placing emphasis on what people wear, how they talk, etc. In ten years, the perception will be completely reversed, and the people who placed importance on those things and made fun of others will seem pathetic in hindsight even if they were "cool" at the time, and the people who just carried on being themselves, even if they were ridiculed at the time, will be admired in hindsight for their maturity.
Date: October 21st, 2015 8:11 PM Author: Jet Mental Disorder
when you play your rival your junior year, don't let the star guard iso you. you don't have the biggest balls on the planet. he will dunk on you. it will be on the news
this boy is not the only man in the world, in ten years he will be irrelevant to me and i will laugh at the idea that i was once madly in love with him. do NOT make any major life decisions based around him or your relationship with him.
no but i spent the first two years of college dating this dude.
i devoted a ton of time to the relationship - traveling, talking on the phone/iming all the time - and that time should have been spent on schoolwork, ecs and college friendships. and i just spent a lot of emotional energy on him. i was miserable that we weren't together.
also we were going to try to transfer to be at the same school. thank GOD that didn't work out
Date: October 21st, 2015 8:25 PM Author: Charismatic Locale
1. Go to a more urban SUNY where you can cop a part-time job during college more easily.
2. Save whatever you can in a Roth IRA when young invested with Vanguard
3. When it comes to college, get out and do things and be social, but don't go to parties to "get drunk." Drinking to get drunk is a problem that will stay with you you're entire life and make you anti-social in the long run.
4. Don't ignore physical activity. Go on walks around campus and town and just see what's going on. Talk to people. Don't be a shut-in.
Date: October 21st, 2015 8:32 PM Author: big pistol
Ball harder, don't act you are too cool for practice and you want an excuse for why you aren't better (still wouldn't have maed it but you could have tried)