Date: March 7th, 2018 1:56 PM Author: Exciting frum community account
This is helpful thanks. Reminded me of a girl I know (friend of wife) who is really close to her father- he wasn't the absentee type. He came to visit and we all hung out- decent looking soft spoken doctor bro. The way she'd act to him was uncomfortably sexual. Like she'd talk about buying real estate and bat her eyes at daddy telling him to get her a place etc. Didn't sense the same vibe from him to his dotter but the whole thing was weird and very xo.
Date: March 7th, 2018 1:58 PM Author: controlling a virtual character on a computer
a girl's first love is her father, there's nothing wrong with this. she compares all subsequent men to her daddy. this is healthy and gives her a baseline on how to evaluate men as potential mates
when people refer to "daddy issues" they're usually referring to women who grew up *without* these good father figures. they never learned what a man is supposed to be like, so they spend their lives desperately searching for someone to fill that dominant, masculine void in their psyche
Date: March 7th, 2018 2:01 PM Author: controlling a virtual character on a computer
it might sound weird or unhealthy, but there's a reason why women who had close, healthy relationships with their fathers grow up to be much healthier and well-rounded adults than women who don't
Date: March 7th, 2018 2:09 PM Author: controlling a virtual character on a computer
yeah, if he's an attractive man. they'll also be eager to please him and love spending time with him
best way to tell what kind of a wife a woman will be is to watch her interact with her father and how she treats him. the ones that genuinely love their daddy will be good wives who will pass on that affection to their husband. the ones who resent or manipulate their fathers will act that same way towards you as their husband
Date: March 7th, 2018 2:18 PM Author: Exciting frum community account
All cr. Also, when your healthy well rounded woman calls you daddy during sex and you start to think of her old man (who you've met and know well) it's a real boner killer.
Date: March 7th, 2018 1:59 PM Author: Magenta Fanboi Senate
Basically, women reject their own fathers because of some sort of perceived shortcoming of their father. This can be real and not real. The ones I've dealt with were of the not-real variety, where the girl is just a heartless cunt who looks down on her own father. Not surprisingly, if a woman's own father does not measure up in her eyes, how do you think this woman will feel about her spouse?
I think a very, very large part of the not-real father issue thing comes from unrealistic expectations created from watching TV, which the bad women that I know all watch a shitload of TV.
Date: March 7th, 2018 2:04 PM Author: peach twisted heaven
my current gf despises her father and it’s cusing a lot of tension in our relationship. I’ve dated lots of girls with daddy issues but this is the first of this type that you describe...
Date: March 7th, 2018 2:14 PM Author: peach twisted heaven
in some cases maybe, but for her he’s just a do nothing loser so it’s really a shocking lack of respect for him that I have never seen with any other girl I’ve dated