she's such a cunt. even when i wrote her several paragraphs at a time about what a dumb and evil whore she is, or how beautiful and sweet she is, she refused to reply 😠ðŸ˜
i really don't appreciate you playing along with her demonic LIES
edit: ok i think pretending to be this person ITT might actually border on libel so i'll drop the charade. i'm the recipient of the emails, poasting from his point of view to emphasize the absurdity of the claim (which he's making in other threads) that i'm in the wrong here and he's not harassing me at all.
a nobody and a shitty poaster. i don't know if he has any accounts aside from this one, but i doubt he's posted anything worthwhile or noteworthy on any moniker.
Date: October 26th, 2021 11:18 PM Author: spruce bawdyhouse
You need to stop. Have you tired picking up something else to distract you? What about setting up a sequentially playing sequence of YouTube Toya "I Do!!" videos?
he does have other hobbies! though i have his # blocked, verizon shows me on their texting web app that he's also been sending equally batshit text messages consistently over the years. 😊
oh!!! and he shoots guns, or at least buys them (and massive quantities of ammo). so that's a fun activity to help keep his mind off of continually contacting me. a healthy and safe distraction! 🙃
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:15 AM Author: bearded parlor macaca
Listen, enough assuming I'm this guy who wants to fuck you just because I know how you tick. I've dated a borderline woman before. That's how I know how you work and why you're garbage. They're all the same. Get this poor fuck a moniker, and get yourself a therapist who specializes in DBT. Good luck.
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:14 AM Author: spruce bawdyhouse
It's critical you understand I don't care about anything you say. I'm just using your poast as an opportunity to extend a memic platform poasting session. In a way, you've just experienced poast rape. Thanks
it's box; i was posting sarcastically from his point of view to emphasize how ridiculous he sounds when he denies stalking/harassing me. diff ex from the fast food worker.
honestly? aside from this guy - and my rm8 essentially stealing money from me - my life is 180 as fuck imo. fulfilling hobbies, solid salary that allows me to do whatever i want, great friends.
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:31 AM Author: Vigorous resort
To be fair,
Wow except for these bad things that other bad people who seem to be attracted to you keep oddly projecting into your life (so weird and random that that keeps happening), sounds like all is well. Congrats!
$766 to share a nice-ass place w good friends when any decent 1br would be $1500+? built-in company? no-brainer. i make $120K but prefer to spend elsewhere. and oh my god, quarantine would have been unbearable alone lol.
after this shit w my rm8 i'm almost certainly living alone in my next place tho
full disclosure: this thread was an accurate summary of his one-sided correspondence between dec '18 and aug '21. i did start talking to him again for a few months in august. the harrassment has actually gone on since mid(?) 2017, but i also talked to him for a bit in 2018. i'll have the exact dates and shit when i start putting together the evidence for the protective order, but since he's calling me out in a diff thread for inconsistency within my story, i figured i'd give a more accurate (if imprecise) account now.
i cut him off again last weekend after a particularly insane rant, giving him plenty of warning that i'd pursue legal action if he reached out again. he has since contacted me via email in addition to following me around as soon as i started poasting again earlier today.
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:34 AM Author: Racy Splenetic Cuck Son Of Senegal
just stop acknowledging him. everytime you angrily reply, he gets a little dopamine hit. just get a gun, train yourself with it, ignore him, and if you see him, shoot him, after having established a good paper trail that he's been harassing you.
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:38 AM Author: bearded parlor macaca
lol @ this retarded NOWAG turbocuck
Here's a little brain starter for you: she has been barred from owning a firearm since her teens for threatening to murder people over an XO poster, among other reasons.
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:55 AM Author: bearded parlor macaca
OK, cool when you go sue this guy can you loop me in so I can make sure this gets on the record? Your thread you posted about physically abusing that chipotle kid you had locked in a cage was also very concerning.
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:40 AM Author: Vigorous resort
To be fair,
FOR ANY READERS UNFAMILIAR WITH THE BACKSTORY OF THE OP (AN UNHINGED FORMER MEGAPOASTER FORMERLY KNOWN AS "THE BOX"):
The Box is an ugly, batshit insane, 30+ year old single never-married-no-kids stereotypically liberal stereotypically neurotic Jewish woman with quickly plummeting SMV who:
- Was suspended from her lower-Ivy college for a year after she violently threatened her roommate and the administration got nervous (this delayed her graduation and she was formally diagnosed with a serious mental disorder as a result of this incident);
- Has fucked multiple poasters, cheating on many of them with other poasters;
- Has poasted many nudes on XO to get attention -- but not just ordinary nudes, nudes in which she was running around in public naked with literal shit visible in the wrinkles of her puckered brown asshole;
- Has been skullfucked by none other than Sam Hyde, with a belt tied around her neck as she choked on his cock and tears streaming down her face (IIRC she was like 18 at the time);
- Has famously had multiple abortions and bragged about them;
- Currently works in "tech" in Los Angeles and cosplays as a goth rocker in "dark" makeup and ripped black jeans who scream-sings retarded "black metal" shit with her back-up band comprised of middle aged men on the weekends;
- Got so triggered about me, a total stranger on the internet, being an evil racist antisemitic sexist asshole bigot who was VERY MEAN to her last time she came around here to shamelessly seek attention (a few months ago) in a pathetic attempt to fill the gaping black void in her heart and soul that she apparently literally printed out a thread of horrible wrongthink I have written, read it out loud to a group of her gay soyboy friends, got them to agree that I am a VERY BAD PERSON, and then came back to XO to make another thread triumphantly announcing that she had spent her IRL time and energy doing this and stridently denouncing me for my horrendous internet thought crimes.
he made it up lol. the kernel of truth is that i showed my friends one of his poasts irl, but uh... it was a screenshot, not printed out... 😂😂😂
'Incidentally, your "music" is shitty. But you are holding it together reasonably well for a blown out 30 year old bipolar half Jew half white girl who has rough ridden miles of cock, so I give you props for that at least. It's too bad that you're such a crazy and amoral cunt. And I do hope the abortion haunts you at least a little, even though I highly doubt it does. Oh well.'
i actually showed it to someone on a date recently too bc it's just hilariously vile
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:15 PM Author: Vigorous resort
To be fair,
"I'm not crazy, you're crazy! Btw I shared this on a 'date' that I had with a stranger recently (haha I'm a 30+ year old single childless medicated rootless cosmopolitan shrew btw) and they agreed that you are totally crazy right before we had meaningless middle-aged sex, anyway you're so crazy!"
he doesn't care at all though. he even wrote in a different thread: "I'm very calm, just stating facts as always. You should appreciate me more than you do, because I'm the one guy on this board who truly doesn't give a fuck about impressing you or flirting with you or trying to fuck you. I just call it as I see it. Sounds like I hit a nerve. Maybe consider pausing that taking stock of that? Or don't, I don't really care."
Date: October 27th, 2021 11:58 AM Author: Vigorous resort
To be fair,
In some ways, I think it's the worst one. Not on a deep moral level (that would be the abortions), not on a macro socially corrosive level (lots of competition for this one), but as a little data point that highlights just how deep your profound mental illness actually runs, and how age has done nothing to alleviate it.
I can understand wanting to fuck a bunch of people at 20. I can understand the lack of self control and desire for attention that leads to chronic cheating. I can understand blowing up at a college roommate. I can understand being so bored with your shitty life that you want to cosplay being a goth rocker even if it's a pathetic performative act for a 30 year old single childless woman. I can even understand (albeit I cannot personally forgive at this point in my life) aborting a child as a young woman out of selfishness and because society says its "totally ok, totally normal haha".
But I genuinely cannot understand the urge that motivates a fully grown woman approaching middle age -- with no husband and no kids (hmm I wonder where your efforts would best be directed in 2021?) -- to take time and effort out of her IRL to not only megapoast on XO (this part is sad but not in and of itself that bad), but to share a "mean thing" that a total stranger said about her on the internet with her "friends" just to have them predictably and meaninglessly assure her that she is ACKSHUALLY like, totally wonderful and great, and that person is a mean evil psychopath OMG I can't believe he said that! It's evidence of a level of profound mental illness and a total failure to meaningfully segregate and distinguish reality from the internet and set reasonable boundaries on conducting day to day life and prioritize shit and display a basic level of self-awareness that I simply cannot grasp, and in that narrow but important sense, it's genuinely the most disturbing one to me.
yes, i dated him for over a year. doesn't excuse ~5 years of harassment imo (started earlier than dec '18 but i talked to him for a period of time before then so i figured i'd just talk about this most recent umm... extended episode)
i didn't know who that was until earlier today. i came back bc i saw an article about why cats knead and HAD to poast it in honor of rasquie
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:40 AM Author: Sickened marvelous locus pistol
Errr def wasn’t suggesting it justified harassment, was just confused about his obsession and surprised you had dated someone that dull.
I wouldn’t get back into xo these days. It’s more fascist, politics-threading, and uncreative than it used to be (tho slightly better in last year or two)
Date: October 27th, 2021 1:00 AM Author: bearded parlor macaca
It's interesting how you will post transcripts of private communication from this guy but you won't clearly quantify how long you were in a relationship with him. What month/year did you meet?
doing better now!! my dating exploits with sane(r) men are actually pretty funny stories on their own. one guy sent me a 251-word essay (actual word count) on why my sloppy, drunken kissing was bad. this was after a first date. it contained gems such as:
"I've gotten a lot of compliments on my kissing (not that that makes me an expert or anything)"
the phrase "kissing interactions" three times
"I would recommend closing the distance using only your face. If you're reaching with your lips like that it felt like the kiss was starting kind of pre-maturely"
i felt soooo humiliated for like a week, then i showed it to some people and they were like, "ummmm the only person who should be embarrassed here is him" lmfao
it would be amusing to me too if it weren't so sad bc i really care about him. i've watched his mental health spiral since we met 6 years ago - he was 21 at the time, so this happened over the most common time for psychotic illness to emerge in men. he refuses to admit, even to himself, that any of this is unhealthy or that he's unwell.
Date: October 27th, 2021 3:41 AM Author: Brass circlehead quadroon
i had something similar happen with a friend, age-wise. known him since kindergarten. it was difficult to deal with the progression in behavior for a long time, partly because it's just hard to deal with and also feeling like shit for viewing them differently.
however, once it shifts to more than odd behavior, you've got to allow yourself to cut the cord. it's not your fault, it's (potentially) not their fault. it unfortunately happens sometimes. in my mind, the friend i had is essentially dead. there's no changing it, so i'll just remember the times before his brain broke.
Date: October 27th, 2021 9:22 AM Author: swollen irradiated haunted graveyard liquid oxygen
i am still completely in love with my ex and i want out of my marriage to be with her again. i get it. i wouldn't, you know, harass her, lol. but i get not moving on.
Date: October 27th, 2021 10:04 AM Author: blue rehab
Typical attention whoring from box here. Let’s recap:
-starts with a hypothetical where she’s playacting as her ex to set the hook with the bort, then discards it as soon as possible.
-woe is me threading, her bread and butter
-also this is a big humble brag that she’s so great someone has been hung up on her for 5 years.
-oh but wait, turns out she’s contacted this dude multiple times SINCE the crazy stalking started. Of course, she volunteers this to DARE any of you white knights out there to suggest she brought this on herself.
-subthread wastelands with a poaster who she assumes must be her ex following her here, without any evidence. Because her life is so important people come to here (her safe space, of course) to bother her. EDIT: Turns out maybe there is evidence, but that means yet again box is fooling around with some loser poaster, and coming back to the well of mental illness whenever she is feeling low and needs a self esteem boost.
-Zero introspection. Zero accountability. Zero attempt to deconstruct why a 30+ year old woman would be dealing with this drama that would make a 22 year old blush. Zero commitment to changing anything about her shit life.
i was up-front about the fact that i responded to him in 2018 and in aug 2021. wasn't humblebragging, at least consciously; my motivation was my frustration over the fact that he was denying harassing me. i wanted xo to confirm to him that his behavior is batshit.
yes immature drama but my life is actually pretty 180 overall (at least to me)
Date: October 27th, 2021 10:28 AM Author: blue rehab
No you weren’t. You spun up this thread for a while and poasted in another thread without mentioning it at all until you got called out. You say as much in your “full disclosure.” That’s the opposite of being “up-front” about it, actually.
You only think your life is 180 because you can’t see the counterfactual of how your life could be without all these mistakes and immaturity. As just one example, having kids is the most 180 trillion thing you can do, but very few people realize it until they have them (and a lot of people self deprecate and dwell on the drudgery of parenting without talking about how 180 it is). But you’ll just do you and end up a childless shrew, and play it off like that’s 180 because you’re so free to do whatever. You’re a prisoner of your own low expectations about the happiness in your life.
women in my family are EXTREMELY fertile and i'm quite confident my window for a first child stretches much beyond the typical 35, but for philosophical and pragmatic reasons i am pretty dead-set on adopting. it's a bonus that there's no rush ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Date: October 27th, 2021 10:35 AM Author: blue rehab
Prediction: you will definitely not biologically reproduce. You may adopt after it’s too late but that brings the 180 down significantly. One of the things that makes children 180 is seeing how you create life and how they reflect you. For a narcissistic person like you this would be a great thing but it won’t happen.
Date: October 27th, 2021 11:54 AM Author: blue rehab
I was responding to your side comment about your window being beyond 35, which is what all aging shrews say. I get that your intent is to adopt but that’s all easy to say when you have full optionality — for now. This is what I mean about lack of introspection, btw. Someone who is being honest with themselves may realize that typing out what you did about how “fertile” your family is (QQ — have these relatives been on BC for 15+ years like you probably are or will be by your late 30s?) is just a coping mechanism where you don’t have to write off having a biological child yet, and that it may mean you care more about that option than you’re willing to admit. But nope, just like when you were 18, you have it all figured out!!!!!1!!1!
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:07 PM Author: Vigorous resort
To be fair,
*30+ year old woman with no husband + no kids + rapidly declining SMV + lives, with a room mate (at 30+), in an increasingly dystopian authoritarian leftist city in an increasingly dystopian authoritarian leftist state thousands of miles away from her biological family (aka the only people in the world who probably do actually love her) + works a deeply meaningless job in "tech" + is feuding with multiple people in her life + seeking attention from literal angry bitter bald middle aged stranger lawyers on the internet because she has nothing better to do with her time + has an actual diagnosed serious mental disorder + oh darn time to jump back on the cock carousel for the 100th time*
"My life is actually pretty 180 overall haha, I guess it could be better around the edges but it's great to me!"
It's so sad. At least you're a Jew and not a white woman. Anyway, enjoy "Hump Day" hehe and don't forget to keep your mask on, stay home stay safe just a few more boosters and California will get back to normal! ;)
yeah. he refuses to admit that he's unwell, even to himself. i genuinely care about him and want to see him happy and thriving. i only put him on blast now, after years of this, in the hopes that people's reactions will wake him to the fact that this shit is super unhealthy and he needs help
gonna do it this weekend. low-key wish i could file one against TBF, too... he's really outdoing himself ITT with the obsessive screeds. i know he just wants my attention but like, who's to say that he wouldn't resort to more drastic measures than writing dozens of angry paragraphs to me every time he sees me in a thread?
Date: October 27th, 2021 12:58 PM Author: bearded parlor macaca
The Box (OP) has murdered at least one unborn child and threatened to murder at least three college roommates. Whatever else has happened off-board we may never know, but the little peeks we get into her life don't inspire much of a sense of security.
to be clear, i didn't read most of these emails as they arrived. i set up a filter to have them skip my inbox. sometimes i would get rly bored and masochistic and read a few of them and feel terrible for a while.
Date: October 28th, 2021 7:49 AM Author: blue rehab
No don’t you get it? She only put him on blast for his own good! She just wants him to get healthy and move on. This doesn’t have anything to do with her own XO cred, her desire to chum it up with the white knights here, or anything like that. This is just her being her typical, altruistic self putting it all out here on XOXO just so this guy will learn a valuable lesson.
Edit: If she ever did go into court for a protective order against this dude (who for the record really does seem mentally ill) if I were him I’d make this thread Exhibit A to his opposition. The glee with which she poasts about this controversy for all the bort to see is PALPABLE. It’s like she’s recharging her batteries from a decade plus of hard living by soaking up all the sympathy, flirting, and general attention she gets here. Anyone read her poasts and think she REALLY fears for her safety from this guy? LJL.
Date: October 28th, 2021 8:43 AM Author: iridescent pocket flask
The evil part is her directly telling this obviously mentally ill guy that she’s going on dates and fucking other dudes. If she had an ounce of empathy she would have stopped talking to the guy completely despite his repeated messages a long time ago
Date: October 28th, 2021 8:42 AM Author: Cracking brunch
Both of them seem totally insane. Dude is insane for even caring so much and being this wrapped up in whatever relationship he had. Just move on. Plenty of other women out there. And she’s insane because it seems like she’s intentionally trying to make him jealous, telling him about other dudes etc. Pretty weird behavior for someone who claims they just want to be left alone. Why not just block his number etc.
Date: October 28th, 2021 9:31 AM Author: Aromatic shimmering scourge upon the earth
The dude's critiques of her in those emails are literally true. He's not crazy for insulting her, he's crazy for being stuck on the idea of being with her.
in early 2017, after a tumultuous on-and-off period during which we both behaved like lunatics, i blocked his # and set up a gmail filter so all his emails would skip my inbox and go into their own folder. (i'm glad i didn't just set it to delete them bc now i have all this evidence for my protective order.)
there was a stretch of time in 2018 when i gave him a chance to be on good terms w me. i had to cut him off again in december after a few outbursts. the 708 emails in question date from dec 2018 to aug 2021.
the reason i started talking to him again in august was bc i got back on here and he started following me around in threads and emailing me from new email addresses. he was trying to provoke me and i took the bait and responded to one. then we fell into talking again. i guess it felt like everything would be easier if we could be cool again. every day, i encouraged him to find someone else and move on. i reminded him of all the ways i'd been a shitty gf, told him he was still young and attractive and deserved the best. i listed our fundamental incompatibilities and insisted over and over again that we couldn't be together.
ur right that i did tell him about my dating exploits. he knew i kissed one guy and didn't openly flip out. but when i told him i had a date that actually went well and that i "hooked up" w the guy, declining to give more details, he went absolutely insane. he sent me 7 entire screens of unhinged snapchat messages in a row with no response from me. here's a sampling: https://imgur.com/a/uGZMvOE
so ya i mean it was obviously poor judgment to let this person back in my life, but i don't think it was crazy so much as naive. and i hope this demonstrates that for the vast majority of the time since we broke up, i was staying far away. ik i was weak and he broke me down but i didn't actively want this.
Date: November 3rd, 2021 6:25 PM Author: bearded parlor macaca
Again, I have nothing to do with this, but I'm sure literally every relevant fact you've presented here (and some irrelevant asides) are twisted severely to represent you in a good light. You are in fact absolutely nuts and impressively malicious.
Date: November 3rd, 2021 6:38 PM Author: bearded parlor macaca
I'm also sure you had contact through other mediums that you're conveniently failing to mention (like earlier omissions). I'm sure also that the vast majority of remotely recent one-sided contact is concentrated into certain small spans of time at least 12 months into the past. I'm sure also it was made clear these were never intended to be interpreted as earnest attempts to initiate a back-and-forth or to be even read at all, and these non-intentions were communicated very clearly at an earlier time.