Date: May 20th, 2024 6:51 PM Author: Maroon racy sanctuary
Men are within 1 SD of their individual peak value at any age from 16-55 if they are sub 15% bodyfat. The issue for men is much less maximizing what they have and much more the reality of hypergamy, which is that women left to their own devices have no sexual interest in the bottom 95-97% of men in pure SMV, and 90+% of men who secure a long term female partner do it primarily as resource providers.
Date: May 21st, 2024 7:48 AM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
men need to understand that women aren't primarily driven by physical appearance in the way that men are. the issue here is that men expect women to think and be like men, but they aren't.
if you're not some jacked chad you should be very happy women value personality, status, resources, etc. more than looks.
Date: May 20th, 2024 6:53 PM Author: Maroon racy sanctuary
Based purely on looks, yes. But factoring resource potential 40 year olds are competitive with many men who are at the peak of their aesthetics, especially if the 40 year old is also not fat and reasonably tall (ie 6’ or taller).
Date: May 20th, 2024 7:04 PM Author: Titillating quadroon
This is only because you have more daily exposure to 22 year olds when you're 25 than when you're 40.
But go start making moves on your 21-year-old babysitters when you're 37 and you'll immediately see that your success rate is higher than it ever was when your were in your 20s.
Date: May 21st, 2024 7:50 AM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
incorrect. if you stay somewhat in shape and hold down a somewhat decent job it is trivial to fuck and suck women 10+ years younger than you. meanwhile a 40 year old women is as marketable as green hamburger.
Date: May 20th, 2024 10:48 PM Author: cruel-hearted theater stage
Aristotle recommends 35-37 as the best age of marriage for the husband, 18 for the wife (Pol. 7.16).
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Therefore it is fitting for the women to be married at about the age of eighteen and the men at thirty-seven or a little before80—for that will give long enough for the union to take place with their bodily vigor at its prime, and for it to arrive with a convenient coincidence of dates at the time when procreation ceases.
Date: May 21st, 2024 4:48 PM Author: Lemon Dashing Church Building
as much as I would like to believe I haven't reached my peak yet, this is flame middle-aged sadsacks tell themselves to justify blowing up their marriages before they die alone or married to a worse woman than the one they started with
Date: May 21st, 2024 4:53 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
marty hart is a good example. gets a ton of pussy but winds up alone after his marriage blows up. the difference is only that marty's career fell apart after his divorce.
if a man's SMV is based in large part on his success. age doesn't factor in until he's visibly old.
Date: May 21st, 2024 5:00 PM Author: Lemon Dashing Church Building
I've seen men whose careers don't blow up when they get divorced think because they pulled off a few affairs they can lock down a better wife blow things up and then end up in this situation
as a man, it's hard not to judge yourself by your success with women, and being in a monogamous relationship takes that away from you, but huh maybe people are supposed to do that and you should follow the BIBLE and not your DICK
Date: May 21st, 2024 5:07 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
i agree. also being married is also a SMV status/success signal for a woman. most men have experienced how women seem to be more into them when they're dating someone else.
i certainly don't think guys should cheat or leave their wife. only that age isn't a huge factor for women until a certain point. you're right that men often do overestimate their SMV when they're married thinking it'll be the same if they got divorced. a lot of women are interested in them *because* they're married, and will lose interest once you're they're not and/or demonstrate their lack of loyalty by getting divorced for no good reason.
the tale of a guy leaving his wife only to come back begging when the homewrecker loses interest is common tale for a reason.
Date: May 21st, 2024 7:31 PM Author: glittery wrinkle
Men at 40 probably attract lower quality women but a wider range, so I wouldn't say that's a higher SMV.
A 40 year old will find it easier to get women in the 30-50 range than a 22 year old man, but he'll find it a lot harder to get women in the 18-25 range. So can the 40 year old get more women? Yeah, but he can't get as many good women
Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:50 PM Author: soul-stirring ladyboy sex offender
Women peak well before 18 but social values in this country don’t allow that to be acknowledged. Age of consent laws in most of Europe and Latin America make it more clear.