Date: September 1st, 2026 9:17 PM Author: Ocher Marvelous Yarmulke
By the time personality matters enough to factor into LTRing a modern female you are 95% over fucking her by that point anyway and can release back into dickpond
If you just look at the phenotypes of couples the answer is just straight-up demonstrably “phenotype.” Like if you suck at evaluating phenotypes you’ll overrate Yao Ming or Zack Efron or vice-versa. But ffs, phenotype. Your ability to evaluate phenotypes or lack thereof is a separate consideration.
Also personality just means “ability and adroitness at Acting Out your phenotype.” Like for a Jock to understand his T is too high and to be more approachable — that’s a Good Personality. A Loser being affable and sociable and shit is a Bad Personality.
Also correct in the sense that the second a shorter “male” tries to improve himself it works against his personality. If he lifts he’s overcompensating. If he has nice hair he’s overcompensating. If he is handsome he’s “handsome but short.” Acting according to your phenotype as a short male is to either be gay or to place a cage in front of a bar at night and crawl around so everyone can laugh at you.
Date: September 2nd, 2026 11:48 AM Author: Hyperactive tantric rehab hunting ground
To reiterate what I said above know your role. The best you can be at that point is a friend to a hot girl. And the key is you need to blend in. For example you need to be such good friends with her that she thinks of you as a “girl friend.”
She will say things like “that guy over there who hit on me is a fuckin loser he’s 5’10” as you sit there 5’9. She says things like “I was out there today and these guys hit on me they were super tall! I only like tall men.” And as a 5’9 you nod approvingly and support her.