Date: September 11th, 2026 5:36 PM Author: tan church building
i consulted with a divorce attorney a few years ago, she said alimony won't be too bad given wife works and if 50/50 custody. the QOL hit will be substantial though
Date: September 11th, 2026 5:41 PM Author: insecure forum
How so? Is it so bad that dealing with it for a few more years is worse than losing your kids 50-90% of the time?
I'd want my youngest to be about 16-17 before I hied to greener pastures. By then, they're their own people. Before that, they need their dad in the picture and I want to be with them.
Date: September 11th, 2026 5:48 PM Author: insecure forum
Sorry to hear. Even though it's not going to get better, wouldn't you rather be there for your kids every day than only have them half the time, while they spend the other half (or more--it's often more) with a vengeful, BPD ex-wife and whoever she brings around? Can't you just check out?
you know fully well which is better, although i understand why you would pretend to be stumped on the matter. this whole situation is your doing; don’t dump it on your kids.
Date: September 11th, 2026 6:00 PM Author: Emerald trailer park
Divorced women almost always bring strange men around their kids, especially crazy BPD types like your wife. Stick it out if you can just to protect your kids. GTFO after they're old enough to protect themselves.
Date: September 12th, 2026 6:16 AM Author: yapping potus
Just start documenting everything and prepare for a unilateral divorce rape situation. Nothing you can do to remedy this under our current legal system that isnt virtually life/family destroying. you can only mitigate
You either fully give on on the whole "family" & move on when this happens, pay full support 0 visitation + leave your shitty kids to her mercy + %chance strange cocks she will be bringing around them (who she will also subconciously use your kids to entice haha or you just mentally check out and ignore her
Thats what "masculinity" is in the modern day, learning to be more compliant with abuse, slavery, humiliation, degradation under pain of immense financial & legal repurcussions. Remembering always to "be above it" like a silent paternalism
You'll probably have to start $$$ spending all your cash to support your kids and she will eventually stop contributing if she hasn't already.