\
  The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
BackRefresh Options Airdrop

best way to prep for divorce w 10+ yr marriage & multiple kids?

lib state other than peper thy angus wife works, 50/50...
tan church building
  09/11/26
(CSLG) or rather, like CSLG, just make FUCKTONS of money ...
Flushed Corner
  09/11/26
ntcr. assume 300-500k/year hhi, wife makes 100k of it
tan church building
  09/11/26
then just pepper thy angus
Flushed Corner
  09/11/26
i consulted with a divorce attorney a few years ago, she sai...
tan church building
  09/11/26
Don't get divorced with kids. Why would you do that? Only se...
insecure forum
  09/11/26
because she sucks. how old is OK to divorce?
tan church building
  09/11/26
How so? Is it so bad that dealing with it for a few more yea...
insecure forum
  09/11/26
it would be longer than a few years. she has undiagnosed BP...
tan church building
  09/11/26
Sorry to hear. Even though it's not going to get better, wou...
insecure forum
  09/11/26
I am checked out, but I don't know if it is better for them ...
tan church building
  09/11/26
you know fully well which is better, although i understand w...
Sable pontificating roast beef
  09/11/26
until when?
tan church building
  09/11/26
*full well
Peristalsis
  09/12/26
Suck it up. It's better for them to have their dad around ev...
insecure forum
  09/11/26
there's a limit to my tolerance likely BPD breakdowns as ...
tan church building
  09/11/26
What can you not tolerate? Just check out and ignore that st...
insecure forum
  09/11/26
Divorced women almost always bring strange men around their ...
Emerald trailer park
  09/11/26
...
Soul-stirring Kitchen Candlestick Maker
  09/11/26
I feel like we’re watching Season 3 of the Hulu short ...
boyish claret internal respiration puppy
  09/11/26
start compiling evidence on her BPD and start interviewing a...
Poppy adventurous headpube
  09/11/26
go find the map to all the cash youve been withdrawing over ...
Misunderstood Razzle Round Eye Corn Cake
  09/11/26
heights of everyone involved?
my dog can log into xo more often than I can
  09/11/26
5'5.999999999", 5'5", 4'1", 3'4"
Pea-brained pozpig
  09/11/26
No one cares about azns.
Useless liquid oxygen
  09/12/26
TREZORS. DON'T. FLOAT
slimy pocket flask library
  09/12/26
Just start documenting everything and prepare for a unilater...
yapping potus
  09/12/26
Don't get divorced if you have young kids. It isn't good for...
Richard Ames
  09/12/26
...
gold cracking home goal in life
  09/12/26


Poast new message in this thread



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: tan church building

lib state

other than peper thy angus

wife works, 50/50 custody the goal

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130499)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: Flushed Corner

(CSLG)

or rather, like CSLG, just make FUCKTONS of money & power through it

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130500)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: tan church building

ntcr. assume 300-500k/year hhi, wife makes 100k of it

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130504)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:35 PM
Author: Flushed Corner

then just pepper thy angus

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130505)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:36 PM
Author: tan church building

i consulted with a divorce attorney a few years ago, she said alimony won't be too bad given wife works and if 50/50 custody. the QOL hit will be substantial though

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130509)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:36 PM
Author: insecure forum

Don't get divorced with kids. Why would you do that? Only seeing your kids half the time--at most--would be terrible.

Suck it up until they're older.

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130506)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:37 PM
Author: tan church building

because she sucks. how old is OK to divorce?

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130511)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:41 PM
Author: insecure forum

How so? Is it so bad that dealing with it for a few more years is worse than losing your kids 50-90% of the time?

I'd want my youngest to be about 16-17 before I hied to greener pastures. By then, they're their own people. Before that, they need their dad in the picture and I want to be with them.

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130518)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:44 PM
Author: tan church building

it would be longer than a few years. she has undiagnosed BPD

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130525)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:48 PM
Author: insecure forum

Sorry to hear. Even though it's not going to get better, wouldn't you rather be there for your kids every day than only have them half the time, while they spend the other half (or more--it's often more) with a vengeful, BPD ex-wife and whoever she brings around? Can't you just check out?

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130531)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:50 PM
Author: tan church building

I am checked out, but I don't know if it is better for them to have half-time away from BPD or to lower key suffer from it full-time.

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130541)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:54 PM
Author: Sable pontificating roast beef

you know fully well which is better, although i understand why you would pretend to be stumped on the matter. this whole situation is your doing; don’t dump it on your kids.

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130551)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 6:00 PM
Author: tan church building

until when?

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130568)



Reply

Date: September 12th, 2026 4:12 AM
Author: Peristalsis

*full well

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131329)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:54 PM
Author: insecure forum

Suck it up. It's better for them to have their dad around every day.

What's she going to be up to around them if you're not there?

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130552)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 5:59 PM
Author: tan church building

there's a limit to my tolerance

likely BPD breakdowns as she does now

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130567)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 6:01 PM
Author: insecure forum

What can you not tolerate? Just check out and ignore that stuff. Be there for your kids.

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130571)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 6:00 PM
Author: Emerald trailer park

Divorced women almost always bring strange men around their kids, especially crazy BPD types like your wife. Stick it out if you can just to protect your kids. GTFO after they're old enough to protect themselves.

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130569)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 8:41 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Kitchen Candlestick Maker



(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130908)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 8:38 PM
Author: boyish claret internal respiration puppy

I feel like we’re watching Season 3 of the Hulu short porch documentary being written before our eyes!

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130903)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 8:53 PM
Author: Poppy adventurous headpube

start compiling evidence on her BPD and start interviewing attorneys in your area

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130932)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 8:55 PM
Author: Misunderstood Razzle Round Eye Corn Cake

go find the map to all the cash youve been withdrawing over the past 10 years

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130935)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 9:29 PM
Author: my dog can log into xo more often than I can (and he’s neutered!)

heights of everyone involved?

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130997)



Reply

Date: September 11th, 2026 10:42 PM
Author: Pea-brained pozpig

5'5.999999999", 5'5", 4'1", 3'4"

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131138)



Reply

Date: September 12th, 2026 6:07 AM
Author: Useless liquid oxygen

No one cares about azns.

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131340)



Reply

Date: September 12th, 2026 5:22 AM
Author: slimy pocket flask library

TREZORS. DON'T. FLOAT

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131338)



Reply

Date: September 12th, 2026 6:16 AM
Author: yapping potus

Just start documenting everything and prepare for a unilateral divorce rape situation. Nothing you can do to remedy this under our current legal system that isnt virtually life/family destroying. you can only mitigate

You either fully give on on the whole "family" & move on when this happens, pay full support 0 visitation + leave your shitty kids to her mercy + %chance strange cocks she will be bringing around them (who she will also subconciously use your kids to entice haha or you just mentally check out and ignore her

Thats what "masculinity" is in the modern day, learning to be more compliant with abuse, slavery, humiliation, degradation under pain of immense financial & legal repurcussions. Remembering always to "be above it" like a silent paternalism

You'll probably have to start $$$ spending all your cash to support your kids and she will eventually stop contributing if she hasn't already.



(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131341)



Reply

Date: September 12th, 2026 1:34 PM
Author: Richard Ames

Don't get divorced if you have young kids. It isn't good for anyone.

(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131780)



Reply

Date: September 12th, 2026 4:02 PM
Author: gold cracking home goal in life



(https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50132127)