Date: December 25th, 2008 1:33 PM Author: zippy rehab
So why would you say you have a preference for whites?
You make it sound like you'll date a black or hispanic person if they prove themselves to be good enough for you, but you don't see white people the same way. You already have a disposition against blacks and hispanics before you've met them.
Date: December 25th, 2008 1:40 PM Author: sienna space
although over the years the majority of whites have made some strides towards not being racists, but the fact is that they are not self aware enough to address the problem 100%.
Date: December 26th, 2008 7:33 PM Author: swashbuckling address
A couple things:
1. This is to some extent bullshit. I can say with certainty that all things being equal I would rather date a girl who is short, with black hair, with C-cup tits, and who is white. This is "my type" of woman. I tend not to find black or asian women sexually appealing, although there are exceptions. In the same way, blond women don't really do it for me. I ask you, how is this proclivity towards people with black hair substantively different than a proclivity towards people with white skin?
2. To the extent that this is racist, why is racism per se a bad thing? Sure, racism has led to a lot of destructive things: (a) black neighborhoods, (b) segregation, (c)the holocaust. But it's also led to some good things: (a) America, (b) white neightborhoods, (c) stronger communities built around a common ethnic identity, (s) a multicultural world (in that if all races and cultures mixed, we would have a one-world super-culture rather than any meaningful diversity). Whose to say that the golden mean, "all things in moderation," doesn't apply to racial identity as well?
Date: December 26th, 2008 7:38 PM Author: fragrant lake property
negative discrimination based on race == racism. it's the fucking definition. it's why AA does NOT equal racism.
the negatives of racism FAR OUTWEIGH those trivial positives. but obviously you're entitled to your own beliefs, however stupid and socially detrimental they are.
Date: December 26th, 2008 7:45 PM Author: swashbuckling address
1. Why do you hate America?
2. It seems like you are hopelessly confused. How is "I prefer white people to black people" (like this dudes' friend seems to be saying with regards to dating) any more "negative discrimination" than "I prefer black people to white people" (as lawschools say with regards to lawschool admissions)? When we're talking about racial preferences, there is tautologically both a negative and positice component.
Date: December 26th, 2008 8:52 PM Author: fragrant lake property
the difference is in the exclusionary intent. choosing to favor blacks inevitably, of course, means some whites who would have BUT FOR that favoring been accepted, but this is clearly not the intent. on the other hand, a dating "preference" like "i will NOT date blacks/hispanics" is innately exclusionary.
the funny thing is both you and the guy who posted below you are both on the same "side" but are decrying different aspects of my stance against racism. and your semantics-based argument is in fact the exact thing he objects to.
Date: December 26th, 2008 7:47 PM Author: Beady-eyed Pisswyrm Son Of Senegal
why do people like you prefer others to hide the truth. would you rather he say he was open to dating other races yet go through his life never approaching other races and dating totally within his race. would this make you happy?
Date: December 25th, 2008 1:27 PM Author: sienna space
first off, he is a fucking lying fucking douche. secondly, yes he is racist. any decision made based upon skin color is racist, including personal preferences.
Date: December 25th, 2008 1:39 PM Author: sienna space
dood...anyone can be a blonde bro...i've seen asian chicks with big asses.... i mean....no agenda, i really think that if someone has "racial preferences" then they are fucking racists, and the ones who deny being racists could quite possibly be, mentally ill.
Date: December 25th, 2008 1:43 PM Author: zippy rehab
They're justifying it with the "same background and better looking" thing.
But if that were true, they would say they prefer people with a similar backgrounds and similar values who are good looking. But they're preselecting on race alone.
Date: December 25th, 2008 1:56 PM Author: Insecure Step-uncle's House Dog Poop
Wow. What he described isn't a "preference," it's writing of an entire race without any thought. If he had said something like "I'm normally only attracted to white chicks" or some shit like that, that would be different. I'm not sure I'd call what he's saying racist, but it's certainly not just a preference.
Date: December 25th, 2008 3:03 PM Author: concupiscible iridescent chapel
Is your opinion based on growing up a poor next to poor mexicans? If so man, I gotta tell you, there's a whole other world out there. Lets go exploring!
Date: December 25th, 2008 11:16 PM Author: Floppy chrome kitty nursing home
Most of my buddies are like this. They're not racist - they just don't find black or hispanic features attractive and don't see themselves ever being attracted enough to a black or hispanic girl to want to fuck her. A lot of white dudes find only white girls (i.e. girls of northern or western european extraction) attractive.
Date: December 25th, 2008 11:32 PM Author: Glittery bbw
Anybody who is attracted to a certain hair color, skin color, or eye color is already lost. Noses vary spectacularly within races. Your doods are dumbs.
Date: December 25th, 2008 11:31 PM Author: up-to-no-good ebony halford
Is this surprising? Don't races tend to marry within their own race preferentially? I don't think this is racism in the pejorative sense, it's more that people find people who look like them to be more attactive.
Looking at the census stats:
- whites make up 77% of US population yet 98% of whites marry whites
- blacks make up 13% of US population yet 94% of blacks marry blacks
Date: December 26th, 2008 12:04 PM Author: cheese-eating violet wagecucks tanning salon
OP - you are so gullible and naive. first of all, your 'friend' doesnt choose not to date blacks or hispanics. rather, blacks and hispanics (and most women for that matter) CHOOSE not to date your friend.
guys who cant get any typical use that lame excuse: 'aww man...i would've totally fucked her but uhhh errr she wasn't my type..yea!'
Date: December 26th, 2008 10:29 PM Author: apoplectic fear-inspiring generalized bond goal in life
Racist.
Considering that the Miss Universe contest is routinely won by Venezuelan women, I don't see how white men can say they are "only" attracted to white women. Maybe something about the Anglo features are attractive to them innately, but these features are possessed by racial mixes as well. If you say you only want to date white women, that thinking is no better than a Nazi looking to pass down the white genes.